Hi, hmm, writing good things about oneself seems self serving and makes me feel awkward but here goes.
I am an excellent communicator, words, written or spoken are my thing. I'm very giving and the first to offer help, in my family I'm the go to gal for everything, I'm a fixer. My family are the most important people in my life the first of which is my 20 yr old son. I have a small group of friends who have been around for over 35 years. I am loyal, I don't make friends quick nor easy but once I call you friend it is for life. There really is very little I don't want to learn about, for this reason I love books. I am empathetic to a fault. I don't believe in hate, it's time consuming and pointless. I don't care for revenge, Confucius said it best “Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”
I live my life by one simple principle "Do onto others as you would have them do onto you". After all everyone eventually reaps what they sow.
I'm nonjudgmental, I live and let live. I like different and am one of those rare people that is very adaptive to change, it keeps things moving and interesting. Love movies, TV, music, dance, traveling, wine, beer, board games, trivia, cooking, get togethers, writing, dogs, and more.
What I'm looking for? Would it be weird to say that I'll know when I find it?
How about someone who falls in love with me, my faults and my virtues. A family oriented man who likes to stay in as much as he likes going out and who is not possessive nor controlling because I am not. Someone who will take an interest in my likes and who allows me to take an interest or learn his. Someone whose actions speak louder than words or at the very least can back up words with actions. I'm old fashioned and refuse to believe that chivalry, good manners, and being a gentleman are things of the past. So in essence along with all of the aforementioned traits, I'm hoping to find that one person who is everything I've never known I always wanted.