I am an assertive, articulate, physically and mentally hard working woman. I am looking for some one to feel safe, relaxed and comfortable enough with to be myself and able to show my softer side. Good looks are great; but a man that can stimulate me intellectually and make me laugh is a real real turn on. Also need a man that doesn't want to change me or ask me to give up my involvement with horses. Although a lot of my time is spent in riding clothes; I "clean up well" and enjoy going out in a cocktail dress or evening gown..... I'm a lot of fun and very adventurous (and although I'm a natural flirt, I can be VERY attentive). I am secure enough not to have to know what you are doing every minute. I need a man that is just as secure. I do talk a lot....but I know when to be quiet, and long silences do not scare me nor make me uncomfortable; they are usually meaningful.
I do smoke occasionally; but if I didn't, I would be perfect and nobody would be able to stand me. .I am a natural blonde and unfortunately, despite my IQ, occasionally act like one. You'll probably find that endearing.
And... despite that assertiveness that frightens so many men, I'm sensitive, kind, loyal to a fault, and always wanting to do for others.