Where have you been?
I've had to go out to all the nice dinners, and other fun things to do without you!
Lately, I've found a new place for great wine tasting, been playing guitar more, and went singing kareoake with friends.
But it would have been nice to share it all with someone special.
Normally, I like watching movies, history, comedy, and finding new interesting things to do. I'm comfortable with my job. Not stressing out and working insane hours anymore. It's nice to come home on time with the dogs waiting for me, then go for a long walk outside.
Warning: I set new records for sucking at sports! The ball alone has proven to defeat me. The other team is just there to laugh at me. On the other hand, I actually do like romantic movies, and appreciate those of you who can talk about what they emotionally and romantically want in their profile, that shows me you’re looking for something more than just someone nice. I do believe in soulmates, and would like to learn to be more romantic again.
Another funny note, for those saying you have to give 110% or 120% to keep the relationship working. A) Do your math. Have your kids explain why that’s not possible. B) If you’re making it that much work, then when are you having any fun? The best relationships I’ve been in were always the funnest, and I was happy every moment just to be there with them. I didn’t have to work to be in love. I knew I just was. I’m happy to help around the house, but if you’re making the relationship into work, then you’re doing something wrong, and making me work harder isn’t going to fix it. If you like keeping it fun and romantic, that would be a nice change.
I have a pair of greyhounds that are my kids. Though they take care of me just as much as I take care of them. They’re gentle around other dogs, and the kids in the neighborhood love them. Though they may have to be trained to get used to cats.
What am I looking for? Simplicity.
A simplicity in knowing without a doubt, that I like you, and like being around you whether you are smiling or crying. Someone I know I can always talk to, and someone I can just look upon their face to be happy. Someone to make sure I'm not too crazy. Someone to care. Someone to make it all worthwhile, and maybe at the end of the day, someone to love.