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37 year old man
Burlington, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
women 25-36
Within:
15 Miles of Burlington, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

UPDATE: My free trial has expired, so I can't contact anyone at the moment. However, with the results from this week I'm going to get a sub within a week or so, and I will respond to those who've contacted me then. Thanks :-)


And so, here I am. A 37 year old separated father of one. I'm 5'6, around 180 lbs., buzzed brown hair and about average build (I've lost 25 lbs. since the Fall and I'm working on more). Right now I'm a full time waiter here in Burlington, and working on my first semester in the Culinary Arts program at college.

So, more about me huh? Well, that will take a little longer to tell but I'll cover the important stuff. Besides, isn't part of the fun learning things about each other? These are what I've come to know as "deal breakers", though, and so I'll mention a few. First and foremost, I am a die hard music lover, and my first love was heavy metal music. It is what it is, take it or leave it. That being said, I haven't "dressed the part" in years. I'm a jeans and t-shirt guy, and "dressed up" to me is nice slacks and a button shirt. You don't have to listen to it, just don't knock it. Same goes for my faith. I am a Christian man, but I don't go to church right now. It's complicated, but hey, something to talk about right? If you have another view, cool, just accept mine and I'll accept yours. I also have a mild form of Tourette's Syndrome. It's mainly facial ticks, and it's very mild. My daughter also has a mild form of it. I know everyone says this but really, once people are around me enough they barely notice it anymore. However, I've had a few awkward moments when I met someone without mentioning this. And finally, well, I am a guy with "a past" as they say. Long story short, I married the wrong woman and she led me into a world I never thought I'd fall into, and I ended up almost losing everything. However, that is my past, and I'm stronger than I was before that happened. Also, without her I wouldn't have my daughter who is THE best thing that's ever happened to me. I'm a very devoted daddy and am amazed every day at the wonder that is my child. She's another reason I'm here. And, she's part of the package. I won't say that I'm not looking for a mother figure for her, because inevitably that's what anyone I am serious with or marry (no hurry on that one though) would end up being. Also, that sets a standard for the kind of woman I want a little higher. She's got to be a good example for my daughter. This is the main reason I avoid bars and clubs. That, and I hate dubstep. :-) I'm not what you'd call a "thrill seeker" in the traditional sense, I get my thrills elsewhere. To me "YOLO" is an argument AGAINST doing something that might kill you for a thrill, lol. So that's me, sort of...

What kind of woman do I want? After 20 some years of being in the relationship game, a few "successes", a few more "failures", and some that were both I at least know what I'm looking for and what I am not looking for. Common interests, beliefs, and opinions are always great since all of the best relationships are also great friendships. Things that are non-negotiable: Honesty, fidelity (no second chances for cheating, you can thank my ex for using up all of those coupons, hehe), and basic manners and hygiene. I do have my "type" as far as what kind of women I find the most physically attractive, we'd all be lying if we said we didn't. However, if your personality stinks I don't care how attractive you might be. I won't list specifics so as to not limit myself, but if I messaged you chances are you have at least one of those qualities I like. I like a woman who is healthy in that she takes pride in herself and her appearance, but doesn't have to keep up with all of the latest trends just to feel any self-worth. I guess all I'm saying is be honest, be faithful, be yourself. If we're meant to be we will be, if not, then best of luck to you :-)

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Video games, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
Alamance Community College, Graham, NC
For fun:

Laughter is my stress-release valve, along with my music. So.. watching or reading something funny, finding that "just right" song to break up a mental logjam, doing just about anything with my daughter, playing my guitar, killing zombies...

Favorite hot spots:

I'm a beach guy, no doubt. Although, during the holidays, our mountains are beautiful. I also like to just be somewhere with someone whose company I enjoy.

Favorite things:

Music, from classical to metal and a few things in between. Being a daddy. Fishing, bowling, a video game or two every now and then.

Last read:

A Garfield cartoon on the web. Oh wait, not that recently.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Retail / Food services
No preference

Full time server, part time student in Culinary Arts program at ACC

Income:
Less Than $25,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree

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