A very nice young lady was kind enough to point out to me that she did not date guys who were divorced w/children that is probably because of all the Baby Mama Drama that can accompany such a situation. So I decided to just clarify my profile, I am in no way on the rebound from my marriage or a participant in any type of Drama. I was divorced over 12 years ago and although my children do not live with me, I am completely responsible for them emotionally and financially, I take care of mine.. which eliminates the need for drama especially if you learn that most men have drama because they either dont take care of business or they still want to keep one hand in the cookie jar if you know what I mean. I gave up my sweet tooth 11 years ago LOL.
Well now lets see I am a jack of all trades and a master of "MANY" not few. I currently work as a Controller, I am an Accountant Certified Tax Preparer. I was born in Hawaii and grew up in Los Angeles and have lived here most of my life with the exception of the years I spent traveling when I was in the U.S. Navy working as an Aviation Electronic Weapons Specialist. What that means is that I know some Top Secret type stuff that I could tell you about, but then you know I would have to kill you right! lol... Once I discharged from the military I went into business for myself for about 10 years and eventually moved on to work in Corporate America. I am educated, articulate and cultured enough for you to take home to meet your parents or to your Company Christmas party and you not be embarresed or ashamed of me, but I also grew up in the streets of LA so you could also walk thru the hood with me and feel perfectly safe because I wish a "Beep" would . I am very ambitious and goal oriented. I am as comfortable in a suit and tie like when I go to work as I am in tennis shoes and a t-shirt when I'm just relaxing at home. I am a self made man. I have started, built and sold 3 successful businesses and love to create something from nothing. I am not saying that to impress you because I realize that who I am is not what I have, what I own, drive or what I have accomplished but the some total of all my life experiences. These life experiences whether at the time I viewed them as good or bad, I know now that they were necessary to bring me to a place of understanding about who I am and more importantly who I am not.
Some of the things that I do enjoy is working out and taking care of my myself physically, spiritually and mentally. I love to ride motorcycles Street Bikes and Harley's and I love to boat and just about all water sports, I Scuba dive, Water Ski, Wake Board, and Fish. I have also been known to Snow Board in the winter and ride the 4 wheel quad runners in the dessert. I love to camp and do so every year. I also like to travel but really only with someone that I feel connected to, I guess it's not the place that I derive pleasure from it's the company and being able to share a new experience or adventure with someone you care about and who cares about you.
I really am not just looking for someone to hang out with, I am hoping to find someone who has been there, done that and is not interested in doing that again. I am availing myself to the possibilities of fate and the belief in karma. Daring to hope that there is real love left in this world and what you put out will come back. The belief that there is someone who was placed here specifically for me and I for her by divine right. Someone to travel this road of life with sharing all that I am and all that we can create together for an experience that will make this life fufilled, exciting, passionate and whole. My belief is that if I don't spend all my time and energy trying to find Mrs. Right and I spend more of my time and energy trying to become Mr. Right, then Mrs. Right might just find me and if by chance I find her first, she will atleast recognize a real man when she sees me.