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42 year old man
Union City, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 30-40
Within:
10 Miles of Union City, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Another foray into the world of Match.com. Maybe third time is a charm or is it three strikes and you're out!

Well...here's my pitch (maybe I should use bullet points):

Unconventional, independant thinker, irreverant politically incorrect. On the other hand can be traditional, respectful, diplomatic and serious when the situation dictates.

What else can I say? I'm just a steady, family-oriented regular guy whose employed (I think once upon a time being a nice regular guy with a job used to be a good thing now I feel there's a perception out there by many ladies that it is "boring"...well then I'll try to channel my inner Alpha Male kind of like the Most Interesting Man in the World from the Dos Equis commercial). Modest in my ways. Open-minded but recognizing there are boundaries. Friendly and easy-going but not a yes-man (I prefer equal collaboration among all parties involved). Passionate and conscientous about what I believe in. Self-deprecating sense of humor. Been known to use sarcasm at times. Fiery, opinionated and stubborn at times - (much of my genetic make-up is Latin/Iberian/Caribbean = passion). I feel that integrity, character, kindness, fairness, empathy and sacrifice are qualities to aspire to. I very much detest unfairness, injustice, pretentiousness, people who are all about money and status. Frankly, that is such a turn-off.

I aspire to reach that one special woman. (I only need one as I don't think my heart is inclined toward serial dating and this medium lends itself to that in the search for the "perfect" partner). It would be wonderful to meet a good woman who believes in the concept of family. An activity and travel partner would be ideal. Someone to get out of my comfort zone with and try new things, explore new ideas, enjoy good company, share quality time. Someone to walk around with aimlessly exploring while holding hands. Is that corny?

Who knows? Maybe good fortune will smile on me and I'll find my inspiration on here. It's better to face life's challenges and share and enjoy its pleasures with that special someone.

An ideal match would be someone with positive energy, considerate to others, patient, empathetic, affectionate, polite, passionate about what she believes in, down to earth and grounded. Someone with a little bit of an edge is okay too - but not to the point that it's "ghetto" and vulgar. I like sporty/active, or serious/studious, or hippy/serene, or artsy/creative. Sexy and sensual is always nice too, wink, wink! But what's certainly essential is a good heart without that you're an empty vessel.

Well I suppose that this summary remains a work in progress....more to follow

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Soccer, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

Been around dogs practically all my life. Love them. Last year I saved a kitten, it's something that just happened. Now I guess he considers me his "papa". I can't shake the kid haha! Somehow I engineered it that he lives at my parents with the doggy

Political views:
Non-conformist
Sign:
Virgo
College:
Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey, Newark, Newark, NJ
For fun:

Among things I like to do is read, exercise, paint little plastic figurines(yeah I know it's nerdy haha!),soccer,travel,etc. Simple things give me pleasure and satisfaction. See I'm easy to please, I don't ask for too much.

Favorite hot spots:

I miss Holguin, Cuba; I would like to once more see the the land of eternal spring Guatemala; I fell in love with Buenos Aires, Argentina; Lima & Cajamarca, Peru were fantastic; Madrid, Spain was terrific. Around here? RBA in Harrison of course.

Favorite things:

Futbol/Soccer - it's a vice. Softball & pitching in particular. Music like everyone else enjoy many genres. I'm an avid and compulsive DVD buyer. My nephew. Napoleonic metal & plastic miniatures. Osprey Publishing books. Exercise/Training.

Last read:

Currently reading the lastest issue of Chronicles: A Magazine of American Culture. On my future reading list are works by Friedich von Hayek and Ludwig Von Mises. Namely Dr. Hayek's "The Road to Serfdom".

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference

Overworked misunderstood civil servant toiling away for the evil govt. Actually I do important work(my employer says so) in regards to compliance and designed to help the public. And nary a day goes by that I'm not mentally exhausted.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
No preference

I consider myself an Hispanic-American recognizing, celebrating and valuing my Hispanic roots and Latin culture. I'm certainly open to other cultures as well. Now when It's said & done I'm simply an American...

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
No preference

Though I don't exactly practice, I'm understanding and respectful of the tenets, customs and traditions of the monotheistic faiths. I'm a Roman-Catholic (I'll never deny it) but am open to those of other faiths or even non-faith for that matter.

Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

BA in Poli Sci and Hispanic Civilization from Rutgers University. Lately I've been considering the possibility of working towards a graduate degree, maybe in counseling or in social work to further my professional development. Just a thought for now.

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