I have a good job and I'm independent and proud. I've ALWAYS taken care of me by myself financially, however that being said I do want to find a man that is financially independent as well. No inbetween jobs or living with mom types please. Lol! I have 2 kids in Jr. High and they are my first priority obviously but I do have the desire to find a special guy that I can enjoy sharing my time with when I do get free from kid events/caretaking. I like to cook for other people.(not sure I'm a great cook, but I like to try) I enjoy being in social settings. I'm not shy and love to talk to people. I like to get a pretty dress on and go out for a simple fun evening & enjoy an adult beverage with good company. I enjoy the outdoors and the lake is my favorite place to be unless I can go to the beach. I guess I just enjoy the Sunshine! I like to stay busy most of the time but I also like to have a lazy Sat. morning when I'm feeling the need to re-charge. I'm willing to try anything once and I'm always looking to get out of town for adventure. I like all different music except Rap. Currently I find myself listening to new country a lot but I like pretty much all the current popular radio hits. I like to watch movies but not alone. I love comedys with good company. I hope to retire to live somewhere by a lake in a beautiful seculded area someday. I'm not quick to judge others like I once was in my younger days. I'm always going to be a work in progress to find the perfect balance to life and I've learned to welcome the constant change that makes me who I am. I want to find a man that is comfortable in his own skin and willing to show his silly side and not be so serious all the time. I want to hangout with a man that has a great sense of humor and could enjoy an evening out together with friends and know he's not going to make an ass of himself but he can also be happy to enjoy an evening alone with just me and find plenty of enjoyable conversation. I like to flirt and I find it fun and healthy in a relationship. I'm not looking for a dad for my kids or a sugar daddy for myself. I just want a fun person to share my time with when our schedules work out. If things begin to transpire beyond that great if not I just want to make sure we've had fun and been respectful of each other and gained a new friend. I expect brutal honesty at this point in my life. Spent too many years with liars and beat around the bush type BS. Its so much more respectable to hear someone tell you the truth no matter how hard it is to hear or say. I WANT HONESTY. I'd like to find a man to share my time with but not sufficate each other taking all the fun out of it. I want to be around a special good looking fun man that makes me smile and laugh and isn't conatantly stressed out and needing a shoulder to cry on. I want to add to the happiness of his day to day life if I can and I'd want that in return.