I could rattle off the worn list of traits that cobbled together would create the ideal woman; beautiful, smart, athletic, good with kids, could put my buddies in check, parents would love her, etc. But who doesn’t want that?
If I reach out to you, there is something about YOU that strikes me as interesting. Yes, an email means I think you are attractive but there are millions of really pretty people on this site. I’d like to think it’s more than that. Maybe it’s your smile or just the way you seem to be that caught my attention. Anyway, it’s a start.