I am the type of guy who puts others first. Ive been in the fire service for over 15 yrs and truely enjoy helping others in a time of need. Spent several days on ground zero in NYC during the 911 incident helping in the recovery efforts and fire fighting. For a short time I worked for FEMA and helped in the Katrina hurricane down in Mississippi.
I do want to find someone who is ready for a relationship and not just casual dating, anyone can find a hook up.
My friends always say I'm the guy who makes people laugh without trying. I enjoy seeing people laugh or smile. Im a calm type of person when things get stressful, I dont yell or make things worse then they are. I seem to look for the positive in every bad situation I guess. I would love to start traveling to places with someone also hint hint lol..I love tropical places,never been to hawaii but would love to go with someone someday, Even get a vacation house their..Better work some overtime lol.
I enjoy trying to stay in shape and eating right, but I'm not turning down a great steak or seafood. I might even get a big piece of cheesecake lol..
What are important to you? Both people should have simular values (foundation) for two people to connect. Sure we all could have that hollywood look, but if you don't have that inner beauty,honesty and love then your just with a picture. Im pretty much up for anything from going out to an event or staying at home making a meal with a great movie. For me I would like to start seeing the world with someone else, being able to see their face light up or smile when they see something amazing for the first time.
Back in 1998 I had a very serious back injury from a fire fighting accident which I ended up having three major surgeries, with some metal being but in to replace my lower disks. That event changed my life I guess in many ways for good and bad. Oh no I said bad lol.., Not in a way people might suspect, I guess my inner self confindence was hurt for many years. Had the idea that no women wanted to be with someone with physical limitations so I Became little shy. I worked myself back to closest to normal I will ever get with some nerve damage but hey their are people today who have things so much worse and they are ver happy people with a wondeful women/life. This is what I am looking for, a wonderful life to start with someone special to me and they see that in themselfs. I love to laugh,joke and put a smile on peoples face, that the type of guy I am. With that being said dont worry Im not going to ask for engagement two weeks of dating. Everyone knows you wait three weeks lol..
I felt it was important to mention my prior back issue so people know this up front to make their mind up if they want to get involved with someone who does have some physical limitations. I guess sky diving is off my bucket list lol. Oh if your mind is wondering by this, no worries the man hood is ok..lol As funny as that may sound love making can be important part of a relationship where two people can truly connect. There something about being able to look into someones eyes without saying one word, and knowing everything they feel at that moment. Ok enough of my thoughts lol.
Hope your still awake and I havent put anyone to sleep. To sum things up, Keep things simple, honest and always be true to your feelings. Im very easy to get along with, always smiling,laughing and helping others. Lets give it a try????? At very least you gain a good friend if nothing else...