Yes my tag line is going to eliminate a lot of women on this site.I don’t believe there is one perfect person just for you.Everyone has good qualities and there are amazing people in this world if you take the time to get to know them.I think it’s cute that you want to size me up for marriage on our first date,but I prefer to build a connection and get to know you.If we are compatible,great,if not,we can be good friends.Either way I will view our time as just another wonderful experience on this road we call life.
I don’t believe in no regrets.If you have none then you probably don’t care about how your actions affect those around you.It’s how you DEAL with regrets that makes you who you are.Did you learn something,do you strive to make yourself a better person?Before we inevitably pass from this world will you look back and think that the world was a better place with you in it? I would hope so.
I’m looking for someone down to earth who has a sense of adventure and goes with the flow.Don’t sweat the small stuff.Laugh like a kid. Be a dork.I don’t have time for selfish people,gold diggers,or those that judge before giving someone a chance. Think back to the best relationships you had.They weren’t with people who were the best looking or had the most money.They were with people who made you FEEL WONDERFUL.You know those people who you can spend a weekend with doing absolutely nothing except laugh the entire time?Bingo!
I don’t believe in bad experiences or bad relationships.I’ve learned something positive from every experience,and have fond memories of every relationship.
Live spontaneously.Trying to appear busy means you think too much about what others perceive of you.There is always something fun to do.I may call you in a flash to go tear up the town,or chill and cook dinner.Or maybe I WILL plan something in advance,but it would probably be a two week safari in Africa.Who knows? If nothing comes up,then just cuddle up with a book and a glass of wine and enjoy some alone time.
I believe in dreams and passionately pursuing them.I set a goal to see 1-5 new countries every year.In the past 20 years I have achieved that goal every year except one.So what am I going about it? I will see even MORE this year.I love sharing these types of dreams with people who are close to me.
I surround myself with awesome people and live their passions.You like surfing? Teach me.You like knitting? Show me what you can do.You like travelling? Let’s go to Longyearbyen and check out the aurora while we cuddle up in our handmade igloo.But don’t tell me your passion is shopping.That’s not a passion,that’s an addiction.
Since I’m using this opportunity to be honest,please have a picture up,but not a picture of yourself in the mirror.Everyone knows you spent hours getting yourself all dolled up to look your best,but if you were really having a night out,wouldn’t you just ask your friend to take that picture for you?How about a picture of you WITH your friends! Show me that you are having FUN. What would it be like to hang out with you?
Self photos are a horribly perpetuated trend that people refuse to admit is downright lame.Like those memes you hear.YOLO anyone? Yeah right.People screaming YOLO are probably at home watching reality shows.Honey Boo Boo FTW.Don’t say it,do it!
As I finish this lengthy monologue,I have to be brutally honest.I love animals.I don’t tolerate people who abuse or hate animals.I donate my time and money to help alleviate suffering in this world.People who contribute to that abuse are not cool in my book.If you wear fur,don’t contact me.Torture for vanity’s sake is despicable.Also,if you ever have,or would consider eating dog meat,then take a hike.
On a positive note,feel free to email me(more than just “hi”).I like women who communicate,especially about fun things.You don’t have to wow me with catchy lines.If we don’t hit it off,that’s ok.Maybe we will end up being friends.You never know.We have nothing to lose.YOLO!