I'm looking to meet someone who's confident, yet not cocky. He'll be taller than me, have dark features (but I won't rule anyone out) have ambition, goals, & dreams.....and actually have a plan on how to get them if he hasn't reached them already! I'd like to meet someone who's already somewhat established as I feel I am. I want someone who's concerned w/staying healthy, but no meat heads that are more worried about their body then a girl! LOL Someone I could go on a bike ride with or go canoeing. There are many places & things I haven't been exposed to, and I would love to find someone who could expose me to those things and/or we can explore them together for the first time. I love companionship and I've had a few serious relationships and have really learned what I do & don't want in a relationship. I love children, but I will not date a man that has them. And I am a spiritual person, but I will not date anyone that will not accept that that is probably all I will ever be...spiritual, not religious. I want to say this up front because I know how dear religion is to some and I completely respect and admire that, but I don't want it pushed on me and/or be pressured to convert. I have turned to the internet in hopes I can really get to know someone vs. just giving my number out in a club/bar, then debating as to whether or not I really want to talk to that person when they call. I get a little nervous talking to new people (which is weird because I'm in sales LOL) on the phone & letting someone really get to know me, but if we never try crazy things like this, we'll just never know, and we could be selling ourselves short from finding the "one"!