I see myself as very ambitious, but I am not quite sure where I want to be in life. Being optimistic, I know that I will get there someday. Family is important to me, but I am not sure if I want one of my own. I am known as a compassionate listener to my friends, but am not overly emotional in any way. I need a guy who will share my interests, be willing to spend time with my crazy friends, and comfort me when the day doesn't go my way. Of course, I would do the same. My guy needs to be intellectual, a bit on the nerdy side (what can I say, I'm a bit of a nerd sometimes), but he also needs to take care of himself by way of appearence.