I would like to meet someone to be friends with first. I do feel that THERE HAS TO BE CHEMISTRY OR ATTRACTION THERE IMMEDIATELY (I am picky about that, but its a time and heart saver). I need someone who is secure enough in their own skin that they can understand and accept the fact that I had a Husband that I loved and lost in an accident and short of AMNESIA or ALZHEIMERS I will never forget him or the life we shared. It is my past and I don't dwell on it but it is there. I just want that out in the open. If you are still reading, I value HONESTY, Faithfulness, Loyalty and want someone who will treat me the same way I treat them. I have learned in the last 12 years to value the people in your life and try really hard not to take them for granted because you never know when they might be taken from you. I just want to do my best to live a good and honest life for me and my children and just know that I have done my best and have peace with myself. Maturity is a must.....I am just not out to raise a person who should already be grown up, I already have children. And I have no interest at all in being a SugarMama.... Profiles with pictures only Please...... IF YOU SMOKE AT ALL.....JUST PLEASE MOVE ON....NOT WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR!!!!!