OK first, my "Name" does not mean I like to go Dutch alot. My nickname is Dutch, and I was playing up to be your knight in shining armor (Sir Dutchalot), Lancelot :) Get it? Anyway, I think I am successful, confident, respectful, honest, caring, gentleman. I moved to So Cal 22 years ago and have lived in many areas, but San Diego for last 7 years. I am looking for someone special to share experiences, enjoy the best in life, have fun and laughs, go to movies, and travel to new and exciting places. Also I would prefer my perfect match to be close to each of the following combinations: challenging but comfortable, exotic but natural, good natured but free spirited, focused but spontaneous, intelligent but open minded, smart-ass but respectful, easy going but hard to get. I understand that is a bit of a wide range, but when it comes to relationships I thought of the key things that have made for successsful partners in the past. The 3 keys of... mutual attraction, mutual respect, and having fun and laughs, all make for the strong partnership. I have been very picky about who I dated and let into my life over the years. I only wanted to invest time when I felt a natural spark. I am still single after 44 years (possibly as a result of my picky philosophy), which many say is a remarkable feat. I am trying out the match.com thing as a means to filter and reduce the club and bar scene, which is getting old. I would enjoy meeting someone special and having some fun with them hopefully leading to more in the future.