Love is fearless. And so am I.
I'm an old soul. People always tell me I have great energy.
I was a Sergeant in the U.S. Army. After the military, I went to graduate school for Clinical Psychology. Now I'm a writer of songs and blogs. What all that means is that I take care of business when I need to, but I'm also very much in my own world. I'm the friendliest, anti-social person you'll ever meet. I can start a conversation with just about anyone. But I don't go out very much. I prefer hanging at the house with some friends over a club. I prefer reading books over watching TV (although I LOVE movies). I love hiking and going to the beach.
I'm extremely optimistic about life and people. I give people the benefit of the doubt. I truly believe that people are good at the core if you just believe in them and give them a chance to realize how good they are.
I lose track of time because I get so immersed in my work. I don't live by norms. I create my own world. I'm a great conversationalist, but I like to observe first. I like taking my time when it comes to people.
I like being in the moment, rather than the moment being narrated by insecurity or doubt. I don't believe in problems. I believe in choices. I don't date those who are old enough to be my parent, or men younger than me. I have a very busy, unpredictable schedule. I don't see this changing so the kind of guy that would be compatible for me is...
A partner who is understanding of my schedule. A partner who is also driven and passionate about his career because he believes in what he does for a living, and he's not just doing a job for a paycheck. A partner who is always hungry for enlightenment. A partner that vibrates at a high frequency and attracts amazing, incredible things in his life... just like I do. I prefer a partner with no kids, who doesn't go clubbing every weekend but still has a fun social circle to hang out with. I must love the people that will be frequently in my life by association to my partner.
On the physical side, I am attracted to men at 5'10-6'2. I prefer guys with a bigger build. A guy who works out for the love of a healthy being, not for his ego.
The perfect relationship for me would be someone I can have intellectual conversations with about spirituality, business, etc. and incredible sex.