I'm old school yet modern, polite but not a doormat, generous but not a martyr, confident, passionate (wildly) and have an exceptional family and circle of friends. Looking for a best pal and someone I can't wait to kiss the minute I see him. He is spontaneous, ambitious, intelligent, capable, passionate, confident, very sexy, funny, above all, is my hero/best friend/lover and in the words of Barry White "My first, my last, my everything". I'm looking for a compliment, not someone that is my opposite. While my criteria is selective, I am very open-minded about new experiences and love adventure. While I thrive on the intensity and stress of my work, and the larger part of my life with my children being equally demanding, I am easily able to stop on a dime and realize how sweet and delicious life really is and that it's affection and respect, love and playfulness of a partner that makes each day an adventure. My perfect match:A man who is taller than me, that has a healthy self confidence, appetite for travel and adventure! He is also fit, loves sports (play not just watch), loves a cold beer on a hot day and sitting on a patio with his feet up watching the grass grow . He should loves his work and adore children. STABLE, supportive, honest, a great communicator even when he dosn't say a word , yet modest and mostly, never afraid to laugh and show me a wicked smile when the mood is right! As long as I'm on a roll .he also is usually civilized, old fashioned, charming, bright, makes me cry from how sweet he is, how funny he is and that knows when to hold my hand when my mother is telling me my hair needs to be cut. He knows that the best way to end an exchange of difference of opinions is with a kiss and making me laugh. That at the end of the day and the beginning of each one, I am integral to his life and I feel it in his arms.