The first thing I notice. . . is a nice personality. I have a eye for life's ironies, and would enjoy meeting for a seriously casual or casually serious conversation over a tamale with a jammy merlot or some ahi tartare with a Corona. (Or did I get that mixed up?. . . We can share!)
Been around the block enough times to know that it doesn't matter where I've been or where you're going, just whether we both show up and connect in the same place together. You're marvelous at something, with hidden talents, yet thoughtful and beautiful in a unique way. . . I'd like to meet that person.
I had to uncheck the "coffee and conversation" box - I crave intimate conversation, and I crave coffee, but over the years I've noticed that they really don't go together. . . I'll explain what I think it is when we meet for a meal or a glass of wine. . . much more convivial and conducive to showing you who I am (a little messy, but I won't start until your dish arrives) and I hope who you are (hungry and thirsty for a good convo. . .)