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45 year old man
Burlingame, California, United States

women 32-54
100 Miles of San Mateo, California, United States
Have kids:
I'll tell you later
Want kids:
Probably not
Asian, Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Other
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'2" (187cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
Social Drinker



What I can recommend to others [all line items are for both men and women] regarding the online dating experience is:
- Smile and have fun even if you did have a bad day because this is a new beginning.
- Go a step beyond browsing pictures and read others profiles.
- When reading your potential match's entire profile, gauge their interest and respect their choices.
- Be honest about your age, weight, body type, relationship status, and number of children. Just keep it real.
- Don't lie, it will eventually and always catch up to you.
- If you believe in the power of attraction, post a current photo or don't expect much of a response.
- Never post photo's from 10 or 20 years ago etc, even if you think you still look the same;
- Find your comfort zone and call it your safe zone.
- Trust your instinct and don't 2nd guess if you feel you should let go.
- Make time in your life to be available for your love life.
- If your match cannot fit into your party life, then cut one or the other out of your life.
- Know if you're not ready so you don't waste others time.
- If you have no space in your closets then you probably have no space in your life for a new relationship.
- When you're really not looking, that's when you will find what you are looking for.
- Listen to your heart, not to your friends; gay friends; bitter friends, lonely friends, or single friends, heart.
- OA, Over-reacting is immature, think about it.
- Try not to set your expectations far too high or at standards you cannot mutually commit too.
- If you believe someone is really out of your league, don't approach them in the first place.
- Bring to the table what you want brought to the table and be sure to put something on the table.
- Never speak bad about your Ex, especially to your present, or it will ruin your future.
- Social drinking is for socialites while heavy [or binge] drinking is for the mentally ill - think about it.
- If you are on meds, take your meds don't drink.
- Keep and continue your appointments with your recommended psychiatrist / therapist. It's socially irresponsible not to when you clearly need help.
- Being highly responsible is as equally sexy as is taking risks.
- Know what your faults are - own up to them and be you.
- Understand the difference between your needs and wants.
- Treat your match as you would want your parents or siblings treated.
- Offer the opportunity of independence while allowing the practice of chivalry.
- Open her door, always. Allow him time to open your door.
- If you initiate the first date request, it is expected that you are paying for the date and making arrangements.
- Don't just offer to pay or split the bill, simply pay the bill - you cheapskate!
- Keep your first date simple and get to know them. Example; a walk in the park after stopping for gelatto and coffee
- Don't turn into a stalker - in any way. A Google search producing an address for your drive-by is, by definition, stalking!
- Even if you drive by when you think we don't know, our neighbors and the video camera tell us!
- Never make an assumption based on Facebook photos taken yesteryear to determine a conclusion this year and find yourself dumped next year.
- and searching for someone on Facebook is still stalking not to mention immature and creepy.
- Actually, try not to research your friends new date or match either, you bitter perv [or B!t@#].
- The best way to respond to a creeper is to block them :-)
- If he or she has not responded to your first 6 to 10 messages, either they are dead or simply not interested.
- Never blow up someones phone, no matter how anxious you are. 5 calls in 60 seconds is blowing up the phone.
- Don't be afraid to go outside your race and don't get caught up with exclusively dating any specific other race.

Stay thirsty my friends.

Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pet Essay:

Just fish, kids cat is with the ex.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
San Jose State University, San Jose, CA
For fun:

Work out, people watch, explore and crack jokes.

Favorite hot spots:

Japan, Hawaii, Okinawa, Coastal towns, Colorado Mountains. Anywhere that is half way between nature and the big city is a preference for me.

6'2" (187cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
No preference
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Executive / Management
No preference

I operate a fun and profitable mobile software and technology company.

$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
I'll tell you later
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Asian, Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Other
No preference

I am mixed / multicultural so I guess you could call me true American however I prefer to call myself "Cafe-Americano". Great flavor and a definite early morning pick you up :-)

Christian / Catholic
No preference

I believe that there is something out there, far greater than human comprehension. I'm not quick to judge others beliefs as I would appreciate they feel the same of my own; and no, I am not a member the Church of Scientology.

English, Japanese, Portuguese
No preference
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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