I like to think of myself as someone who looks at the glass and sees it half-full. I am positive and I want someone who is also. I love surprises and last minute mini-trips to Niagara Falls, the beach or the mountains. I am extremely loving and I love the physical connection in a relationship as well as the emotional side. I need that from a relationship . I don't play mind games, don't have the time. I work very hard in my career but when I walk out of the office, I want to play and enjoy life to the fullest. I want someone who is only comfortable dating one person at a time, not a juggler. How can you get to really know someone if you are spending time with multiple people and trying to give each one your undivided attention? I can't do it and I certainly don't want someone who can or does. When I find that special one, he will have my complete and undivided attention . I need someone who is active and though, I enjoy nights in front of a fireplace and those times when all you feel like doing in curling up on the sofa with that special one,;; the majority of the time I love the out of doors and I love everything from hiking, motorcycling to 4 wheeling and everything in between.