In a nutshell...I'm looking for someone who's HONEST, able to carry on a normal, intelligent conversation, isn't totally self-absorbed or superficial, loves kids, is a hopeless romantic like myself- who has a sense of humor & can laugh at themselves (& with me!) :) ******I have NO idea why it always shows me as "online now" when I am not. So weird & it bugs me. :)
The most important thing to know about me, would be that I have 1 child (who is 11,) who's my very own personal ray of sunshine. I'm extremely loyal...honest, to a fault sometimes...I think I have a great sense of humor & wit...I'm HILARIOUS-seriously! :P...I'm a sentimental, hopeless romantic...caring & compassionate...giving & understanding...loving & kind...but I can also speak my mind if the situation requires it...I love using my power tools & DIY projects around the house or taking things apart & trying to fix them...I love gardening & mowing-I'm also a TOTAL girlie-girl, but I'm not a priss...if I get dirty, I just take a shower. ;) I LOVE watching UFC matches...I have my own xbox & I play it...I HATE hot dogs...I have an insane fear of bees & lightning...I have an addiction to iPad apps...love going to Lowe's as much as I love buying shoes...I'm a proud Sudoku geek...I golf AND have my own clubs & shoes...I do nice things for people without any ulterior motive for doing them *gasp*...I use curse words if I feel like it...my secret guilty pleasure is watching Mob Wives & Big Ang (seriously-I challenge you to watch 1 episode without laughing through almost the entire show :) )..I think spell check should be used by more people...I overuse ellipses..??...everything I've said I like or dislike is true...I'm not going to pretend to like something I don't...that's sort of defeating the purpose of taking the time to write all of this out. :)
If you're looking for FWB, are currently separated, don't like to communicate, can't handle someone who talks a lot (yes-I talk a lot...I've been that way since childhood, there's my disclaimer :) ) or if you're looking for someone who's perfect-with the perfect body & always sunshine & rainbows...I'm definitely not your girl. ;) I'm not looking for a perfect person-I'm looking for someone who's perfect for ME...do you exist?
Ultimately, I would love to meet someone who's here to find a lasting relationship, who can enjoy the privilege of even the simplest things in life, laugh & be happy in the process. Every relationship starts by getting to know someone & forming a mutual friendship & respect for one another-there's also an undeniable need for chemistry too. We have no idea how, when or where we'll eventually find "the one" for us-which is why I joined this site. Maybe we'll eventually meet for a date? Then, it's just that-a date-if we like each other, then another date...etc. It really is that simple. Believe it or not, all women aren't planning a wedding after the first date. :) Isn't that just CRAZY talk? I know, right? ;) (if I have to tell you that was me being sarcastic, then I'm definitely not interested.) lol
I know I have to take the bad with the good along the way...but in the interest of not wasting anyone's time-I'm not interested in a "hook-up" or anyone looking for a "hook-up." I promise I'll be ok if you don't message me. ;) & if you don't have a sense of humor or if you take everything way too seriously...we're definitely not a match. ;)
"I know it's a cornball thing, but love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. I say fall head over heels. Find someone you can love like crazy, and who'll love you the same way back. How do you you find 'em? Well, you forget your head and you listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Because the truth is, honey, there's no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love, well, you haven't lived a life at all. But you have to try, because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived." ~Meet Joe Black
