Like most kind, decent men, I've wrestled with the idea that it's the bad dudes who have all the fun. Now that I have a few decades under my belt, I can see that in fact nice guys do finish first. Living responsibly has set the stage for these to be the best years of all for me and someone special.
I have wonderful dreams and -- for the most part -- the means to make them come true. I hope you'll join me.