I am a bartender!!!!!! There, that should save some time. Since apparently there are a whole lot of you ladies that feel tending bar is not a real job. Or that a bartender can't be responsible and take care of his business. I have been at the same job for 9 years. I enjoy all aspects of tending bar. From the interaction with new and sometimes interesting people, to having the ability to live my life the way I choose. I am afforded the luxury of doing what I want, when I want. Eventually wanting to open my own bar. It's on the horizon. I tried the corporate world after I got out of the Marine Corps. Everything from advertising to construction. Wasn't for me.
I am a loyal and honest (brutally sometimes) person. I don't think chivalry is dead, but it's certainly on life support. I am a gentleman and know how to treat a lady like just that, a lady. I have a beautiful 16 year old son that lives with his mother. I am definitely NOT a gym rat. Dunno how people can coop themselves up like that when there are so many ways to get exercise outdoors. A bike ride to the beach or a good hike up Temescal Canyon is all I need to stay in shape. I try to eat only humanely raised, cage free meat. I volunteer for the Obama campaign. I like to have fun with pretty much everything I do.If you're not having fun, what's the point! Was in long term relationships for many years, then found myself single for the last couple of years. Ready and wanting to be in a relationship again. I want to be one of the couples that everyone is jealous of. I am looking for someone to go to the beach with, play pool with, go to Sea World with. Or someone to just cuddle up on the couch to a movie. (I'm a BIG cuddler!) Someone with the same interests, obviously. I am looking for my best friend. Chemistry a must.
Oh yeah, I have tattoos as well. That should weed out the rest of you judgmental women.
Good luck to all.