I am a 30 year old female looking for my "forever love". I hope to meet someone who is looking for a long-term relationship and someone to enjoy the rest of each other’s lives with. Family and friends are very important to me, as is being social and spending time with them. I would love to meet someone who likes to get out of the house and enjoy the little things in life as I do. I love to travel, and would love to meet someone who would like to explore with me. When it comes to day to day life; I am a nurse and have a job that can be demanding (sick people don't care about holidays and weekends). It would be nice to come home to someone who I can talk about my day with. I have 2 amazing children, so obviously whomever I meet will have to want a family.
Most people have a hard time describing what they want in a mate unless they have been in a relationship that failed on account of various qualities missing from the relationship. That being said I know for sure that some of the qualities I look for in a man are: loyalty and dedication, someone who always considers themselves a work in progress with room for growth, loving and affectionate, family oriented, respectful, a good listener and communicator, considerate of others, team player (managing a family can be like playing for a team!), and someone who overall respects and values whomever his partner is. The best way I can describe the kind of love I want is to compare it to how Barack loves Michelle. Whenever he looks at her you can tell that feels so blessed to have her as his wife, he values her with every part of his being, and is so grateful that she is on his team. I want my man to look at me with that same glowing look! If I can find that kind of genuine love and affection, I could only feel so lucky to have such a wonderful man!
Other little things I look for are: men who have completed college and received a degree, just because I think it lends something to their character that says that they are determined enough to focus on and finish something. Employed kind of goes without saying! That is a very attractive trait to me! I like someone who is not superficial. Appearances are great, but it means nothing if you are a horrible person. However, a well groomed man who smells good is always a bonus :-)! Someone who talks to me, not at me! Someone affectionate!
If you like what you've read please feel free to contact me! Here's to crossing my fingers that my "one" is out there!