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34 year old man
Chicago, Illinois, United States

Seeking:
men 25-48
Within:
200 Miles of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'2" (187cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I think the first thing you should know about me is that I don't want a boyfriend. Rather, I want a friend whom I like so much, that I'd want him to be my boyfriend...and vice versa. It's a subtle difference. It's just the way I look at it.

I'm just a regular guy that happens to be gay. I'm honest and down to earth and try to live by the golden rule. I'm intelligent and thoughtful. My friends would probably would describe me as a thoughtful goofball. I laugh at the corniest of jokes(What does a nosy pepper do?). I think I am smack in the middle in the introvert/extrovert spectrum. I love my 'recharge' time alone but I need and crave social interaction. I am not a big fan of the bar scene or the typical gay lifestyle. I don't do drugs, I don't drink and talk behind people's back because I have nothing better to do. I surround myself with people who are caring, loving, responsible and fun.

I love sports (basketball, snowboarding, tennis, surfing, rollerblading, hiking, weight lifting, just learned surfing) and being active. Don't read into that too much, just because I love sports, doesn't mean you have to as well for us to connect. I have a stable career that I enjoy and great friends that I love dearly and am glad to work with a great group of people.
I'm happiest at the beach playing in the waves or playing volleyball with friends followed by a relaxed group dinner.

There is always room in my life for quality friends, but let's face it-that's not why we're here. Ideally I would like to find that one person to share a commitment with, but there's no rush. I've been in long term relationships before so I know it's not always roses and puppies. It takes work sometimes, but it's the good kind of work...the kind of work you actually WANT to do. I look at it as 'teamwork'.

Physical appearance is important but it's only half the story. I like a guy who has a caring personality who is aware of his impact on other people. I am drawn to calm energy, balance in life, someone who knows what they want, romantic guy, someone who is athletic and takes care of themselves, not a partier, sweet and genuine. Loyalty, honesty and respect preferably with a set of dimples and a nice smile makes me melt :)

Oh and please have a face photo when contacting me. I know we're all in different stages of coming out and all but we're never going to get anywhere if we hide ourselves. Rant over, thanks for reading. :)

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Playing sports, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Football, Inline skating, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
DePaul University, Chicago, IL
For fun:

I love sports and am an avid basketball player and snowboarder. I weight train, roller-blade, play tennis regularly. I love to travel and dabble in photography, spending time with friends. I'm never bored as I always find something interesting to do.

Favorite hot spots:

The most beautiful place I have visited was in hawaii I fulfilled my boyhood dream of swimming with tropical fish and turtles. A trip of a lifetime! When I travel, I look for things I cannot do elsewhere and do them.

Favorite things:

I'm all over the place as far as music goes. From country through dutch trance to hip hop.

Last read:

'A New Earth' by Eckhart Tolle. I learned a lot from reading this one, the biggest lesson being to live in the present moment as much as possible.
'The Outliers' - Fascinating view of the way we view success.
'Eat Pray Love' - Elizabeth Gilbert

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'2" (187cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 6'11" (210cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Green
Hair:
Dark brown
Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I am a software engineer and enjoy my job and the people I work with. I have the best boss ever! How many people get to say that?

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

I'm an immigrant, can you guess where from?

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English, French, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

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