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41 year old man
Solana Beach, California, United States

Seeking:
women 24-41
Within:
150 Miles of Solana Beach, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I was Born in South Africa, but grew up in La Jolla... yeah, that's right, I'm Africanized so watch out! Hahaha

I'm reasonably smart (at least that's what my mom tells all of her friends) and tend to be very playful and sarcastic (AKA: a total smartass). So if you don't like teasing/playing with each other, we probably won't work out. That said, I'm definitely a grown-up when needed. I'm an entrepreneur with a software startup, so I'm very success driven, but thankfully it also affords me the flexibility to live and enjoy life. I take a very confident but easy-going approach to most situations, while doing my best to handle things with calm logic and common sense. This helps things work out well most of the time.

Fitness is a big part of who I am; I work out hard 5-6 days a week. I do the gym, train for a few triathlons each summer (swim/bike/run), and I've surfed since 15, it's kind of my meditation, etc.... Basically, I love anything to do with being active and the outdoors. Whenever I get the opportunity I go play outside.

I love music and have very eclectic tastes, Marley to opera. Music is always on at my house, literally *always* on. I also plan to start enjoying the arts again (theater, museums, opera), but haven't had the time to do a ton of it in a while. I was almost an art history minor, but football got in the way. I love big museums and little exhibits everywhere I go. I expose my kids whenever I can.

I'm a closet nerd who has a very serious wanderlust, with a bucket list to match. I've traveled for most of my life and have briefly lived in Cannes, Barcelona, and Cape Town. I want to be the bastard child of Indiana Jones and Anthony Bourdain when I grow up. I haven't had the time/opportunity to travel anywhere but Southern Africa for the last couple years, but I'm changing that in 2015. Brazil/The Amazon/BA/Peru and Japan top my list.

I'm also a food geek who loves to cook, and yes, if you're amazing I might cook you an insane dinner at some point. I eat paleo day-to-day, but I'm a *very* adventurous eater when I go out. I'm also a real man and gentleman who definitely believes that chivalry should never die... and I love my mommy (and daddy), but don't worry, they live in South Africa.

I have two amazing young kids that are my world a few days a week. My life is an interesting dichotomy - Everything I do has their happiness and well-being in mind, but when I don't have them I enjoy life and seek out big adventure. Wanna join me?

Interests:
Camping, Cooking, Dining out, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Swimming, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I like most animals, but I'm definitely a dog person first. Elephants next. (most cats are assholes. Hahahaha)

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Adventure...

Whether it’s exploring a new country, or just a new area around SD. When I have free time I try to pack in as much fun as possible - that can mean surfing somewhere warm, checking out local music, or trying an exotic new restaurant.

Favorite hot spots:

Encinitas, Del Mar, La Jolla, Cape Town, anywhere in Western Europe, and long stretches of road to ride and run/the pool/Ocean.

I need to check out much more of Asia and South America (Thinking about a Brazil/Amazon trip in the near future)

Favorite things:

1. My amazing kids

And then in no particular order:
* Anything nature/outdoors (surfing, hiking, camping, adventuring, etc…)
* Information/Challenges (mental and/or physical)
* Anything to do with travel and other cultures/people/food

Last read:

Twain, Hemingway, Hunter S., Wilbur Smith, Castaneda, Dickens, and many more… I’m a voracious consumer of info of all types. I love to read when I have time (not much lately). I've also read and love many of the classics (from Dickens to Cervantes).

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Light brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

I have a collaboration software start-up. I'm an INTJ. (right on the I/E line)

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

After a while establishing my career, it was either go to biz school or do a start-up... I'll probably do the MBA in a few years once we've exited my biz, but I'm pretty sure I've learned a ton more at the U of Hard Knocks. ; )

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