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41 year old man
Solana Beach, California, United States

Seeking:
women 24-41
Within:
150 Miles of Solana Beach, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I was Born in South Africa, but grew up in La Jolla... pretty rough upbringing I know.

I'm reasonably smart (at least that's what my mom tells her friends) and tend to be very playful and sarcastic (a total smartass). That said, I'm definitely a grown-up when needed. I'm an entrepreneur with a software startup, so I'm very success driven, but thankfully it also affords me the flexibility to live and enjoy life. I take a very confident but easy-going approach to most situations, while doing my best to handle things with calm logic and common sense. This helps things work out well most of the time.

Fitness is a big part of who I am; I work out hard 5-6 days a week. I do the gym, train for a few triathlons a summer (swim/bike/run), I've surfed since 15, it's kind of my meditation, etc.... Basically, I love anything to do with being active and the outdoors. Whenever I get the opportunity I go play outside.

I love music and have very eclectic tastes, Marley to opera. Music is always on at my house, literally *always* on. I also plan to start enjoying the arts again (theater, museums, opera), but haven't had the time to do a ton of it in a while. I was almost an art history minor, but football got in the way. I love big museums and little exhibits everywhere I go. I expose my kids whenever I can.

I'm a closet nerd who has a very serious wanderlust, with a bucket list to match. I've traveled for most of my life and have briefly lived in Cannes, Barcelona, and Cape Town. I want to be the bastard child of Indiana Jones and Anthony Bourdain when I grow up. I haven't had the time/opportunity to travel anywhere but Southern Africa for the last couple years, but I'm changing that in 2015. Brazil/The Amazon/BA/Peru and Japan top my list.

I'm also a foodie who loves to cook, and yes, if you're amazing I might cook you an insane dinner at some point. I eat paleo day-to-day, but I'm a *very* adventurous eater when I go out. I'm also a real man and gentleman who definitely believes that chivalry should never die... and I love my mommy (and daddy), but don't worry, they live in South Africa.

I have two amazing young kids that are my world a few days a week. My life is an interesting dichotomy - Everything I do has their happiness and well-being in mind, but when I don't have them I enjoy life and seek out big adventure. Wanna join me?

Interests:
Camping, Cooking, Dining out, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Swimming, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I like most animals, but I'm definitely a dog person first. Elephants next. (most cats are assholes. Hahahaha)

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Adventure...

Whether it’s exploring a new country, or just a new area around SD. When I have free time I try to pack in as much fun as possible - that can mean surfing somewhere warm, checking out local music, or trying an exotic new restaurant.

Favorite hot spots:

Encinitas, Del Mar, La Jolla, Cape Town, anywhere in Western Europe, and long stretches of road to ride and run/the pool/Ocean.

I need to check out much more of Asia and South America (Thinking about a Brazil/Amazon trip in the near future)

Favorite things:

* My beautiful, amazing kids
* Anything nature/outdoors (surfing, hiking, camping, adventuring, etc…)
* Challenges (mental and/or physical)
* And pretty much anything to do with travel and other cultures/people/food

Last read:

Twain, Hemingway, Hunter S., Wilbur Smith, Castaneda, Dickens, and many more… I’m a voracious consumer of info of all types. I love to read when I have time (not much lately). I've also read and love many of the classics (from Dickens to Cervantes).

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Light brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

Software start-up. Yep, I'm an INTJ. (right on the I/E line)

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

It was either biz school or do a start-up... I'll probably do the MBA in a few years once we've exited my biz, but I'm pretty sure I've learned a ton more at the U of Hard Knocks.

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