Yes, I’m 45 and never been married nor have children. Yes, I know that makes me a freak of nature! Some may look at it as a red flag but I had several long and significant relationships in my life. Unfortunately they did not work out the way that I hoped and now I find myself 45 and in this situation.
Some would save I have a pretty great life. I am lucky enough to have a great family and great friends. I have also been very lucky in my career. I am able to take advantage of all life has to offer and do it as much as possible. Do I feel like I missed out on some of the stuff that comes with being a wife and mother? Of course, I do, but there are so many positives in my life I am thankful for.
What am I looking for: I want the usual things we all want.... Someone who is kind, loyal, honest etc etc etc...Someone who has a good work ethic but makes time for relationship. Someone who has friends and activities outside of me, but will definitely put me first. I want someone who likes to do and explore new things. Summer is too short and I like to be outside as much as possible so I would like someone who does as well. I want someone who has their own opinions and can challenge mine. I want someone who shares all aspects of their life with me as i will do the same.