Update: When I was a teenager I was a cheer leader, I'm not anymore. When I was a young adult I was a model, I'm not anymore. If you're looking for a Barbie with no brains , move on! Read people's profile so you know something about them before asking for someone's phone number! Curvy does not mean fat and flabby, it means someone who has a little meat on the bones! Now that I got that off my chest... back to my profile...
I am a single parent of two kids who wants to find someone who likes to have fun and has some spunk. I need someone who likes to laugh, play, talk, and enjoy life. Life has become very hard and I know we all have our baggage but I would like to find someone who can leave the past in the past and look forward into the future with an open heart and an open mind.
I'm tired of the pick-up lines, never ending promises, dark shady places where the music is so loud your drink falls off the table. I don't like to be board in conversation and I value someone who can speak their mind without getting into a fight.
Plain and simple...I'm looking for someone not just for now but someone with potential to be forever. I hate to sound like the typical girl who wants to be swept off her feet but lately well...I do. I want to feel the chemistry and romance. Just feel someone good and wholesome. Honesty and thoughtfulness are qualities that I can not live without in a guy. I want to feel the butterflies and want someone to want to be with me...only me. I don't share my guy or my car.
With these demands, I can also in in turn promise not to lie, cheat, whine, complain on a Saturday if you want to watch the football game, cook you good food, look you in the eye, not tell a white lie to cover something up, not get make-up on your fresh pressed shirt, and most importantly, I promise to wait 5 seconds before greeting you everyday with a warm hug and sweet kiss. I say what I want and want what I say, no hidden agendas or beating around the bush...I am very real and straight to the point. I'm tired of the games so I don't intend on playing one with anyone.
Going to bed upset is not an option so I need someone who can express themselves in words or otherwise...
Since I have kids the guy with me has to know about priorities in life and know that he only comes second to them. If you have kids then you know being a parent this day and age is very hard and keeping kids in the background is not the right thing to do. My children are raised by me alone and no...I don't need a father for them. I am plenty mom and dad but I do need a companion for me who doesn't mind my sons Mohawk or my daughters intentional pouting. Someone with patience and big heart...not just for me but for the 3 of us.