I'm patient, strong, open minded, out-going, active, curious, successful, calming and love to experience new places with good company. In my past single life I spent my free time practicing yoga, working out, rollerblading, biking, hiking, camping, backpacking, snow skiing, water skiing, wind surfing, kayaking, sailing, sky diving, scuba diving, touring Europe, playing at Club Med (Turks Caicos and Cancun), weekend getaway's wine tasting, spa weekends, or at hot springs. Whistler Ontario are some favorites vacations too! I love trying new things...racquetball, tennis golf were fun and I'd be open to playing again. Somehow these activities changed after marriage and a kid, but I am anxious to getting back to having fun with someone who enjoys the same quality lifestyle!
I do best in one-on-one settings for deeper conversations, but also love to entertain and socialize. My business is in the holistic health and fitness industry, so I desire a partner who is health conscious. Loves to exercise and stay active. If you are looking for a gal who cleans the house and cooks while you sit in front of a computer or tv well, I am not that person. I do enjoy cooking healthy meals with a partner or at least alternate the creativeness. I enjoy entertaining, which is when I get most creative in this department. Cleaning...who has time? I prefer someone who helps pick up, sort, and maintain a clean and beautiful home inside and out. I believe in respecting yourself, others and the things you own. This I try to teach my son.
I enjoy spending quality time with my partner around the house and outdoors traveling and exploring. I also enjoy time alone to hear my thoughts and stay connected to myself. So, I appreciate a man who has quality friends and hobbies to keep balance in our life and I enjoy spending quality time w/ my girlfriends too. At the same time I hope our friends can travel and hang out with us as couples... Playing cards, games, traveling etc.
My son is my biggest joy and first priority. His dad is a package deal...as I put it. In other words, the right match for me would be a man who is confident in himself, open minded and his heart open to the dynamics that are involved with shared parenting. Sensitive to wanting the healthiest environment for my son and still maintain family values. I'd love for my son to have siblings close to his age and a man for me who will not replace his father, but who can mentor my son around money management, respect and care for self and family, having fun, romance and good old fashion values and traditions.
Of course, I'm looking for intimate chemistry and lifestyle goals that will lead into a long term relationship. I believe this is important for long term survival. I love to kiss, laugh, hold hands and be treated like a lady. I love to garden so getting dirty is comfortable for me, however cleanliness is very important too. I enjoy someone who can make me laugh, I can be serious and sarcastic at times, so I need someone who can keep it light and get my dry sense of humor...but also knows when to reel it in. This includes being a good listener. I am someone who will tell you what I need and want so if you are listening, then your part will be easy. I tend to attract quirky people ...maybe because I am open minded, curious and excepting of others.
I respect a man who is motivated, responsible, goal oriented, happy in his career, willing to plan a weekend and make it happen, playful, and mature. Fashionable and yet rugged...I love the outdoors...camping, boating, rock climbing, hiking, swimming, backpacking, biking, vacationing, music venues, wine tasting, spa weekends etc. but I am also a parent, so family outings at this age stage is more kid friendly. Hanging out at the pool, park visits, Disneyland etc. Again...balancing romance, independent care and family play is key.
For now...meeting and seeing if there is ease in our conversation is a great place to start.