So my mom is Korean and old and just joined the facebook. I'm not sure how this happened but she added me and some of my family and friends. At first, I was afraid but she can barely turn on a computer so I thought no harm. Then I got the first broken English comment on a pic that already had lots of comments. Then she wrote on my wall, 'why you not married yet'? That got a comment high of 72. High embarrassment and comedy at the same time in those comments from friends, exes and people that now want to add my mom. Does anyone know if there are parental controls? She is the female version of Larry David and I often feel like I'm living in a Curb Your Enthusiasm episode. Anyway, she wants me to find someone, so here I am.
Likes: Sports, movies, the little person in Game of Thrones, Homeland, Crossword Puzzles, ESPN, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad, Food Network, new car smell, Words With Friends, helping others, reality tv, techy gadgets, bacon, the outdoors, kids, hiking, going to the houseboat, comedy, and travelling.
Qualities: I would consider myself funny, intelligent, unique, athletic, competitive, confident, ambitious, adventurous and honest. Oh and most of all humble. I am an ESTJ. I have strong opinions but can accept others-I'm democratic but have some republican views but after the last election, I'm disappointed on both sides. I listen to people, not just hear them and I like to see other points of view, even if they are clearly wrong. :) I have an inner voice and a filter but need someone to help me control those.
I not only like travelling, I actually go. My last adventure was a month backpack trip to Bali. I'm still tan and down 10lbs due to the overwhelming heat. I've been to 27 countries and would rather spend money on adventure than fancy clothes or cars even though I do drive a Volvo. (Little shot at myself) I often get asked where are you going next? I love kids-I'm an uncle to about 100 or so kids because most of my friends are rabbits. Reality-my sister just had twins-boy and girl and am so happy to be an uncle again. Last thing-I'm easily distracted by Gadgets and new techie stuff. It's called geeky but oh well.
Some of the life lessons I've learned that defines me:
-Don't waste time.
-If you smile at someone, they might smile back.
-You may fall for the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time.
-Help those who need help.
-Humor can be found in the dodgeous places/situations.
-The worst decisions make the best stories.
-Never let your actual age dictate how old you feel. I still feel like I did when I was 28.
-Dont sweat the small stuff-Life is too short to hold grudges.
-Family is #1.
-Have Fun. I think the best compliment I've received is 'you always seem to have fun, no matter where you are'.
So in all seriousness, I am a driven guy with lots of good things going on in life. I don't feel pressure to find someone, it's just that I feel that being single is somewhat unfullfilling. While I am funny and kind of a smart ass, I still have goals and a true desire to meet someone extraordinary. I hope to meet someone that I have a shared chemistry with that enjoys sports, traveling, eating, drinking, having fun and can be happy with her. Someone beautiful on the Inside as well as Outside. I've gone out with empty beauty before and it's not for me. Life doesn't have to be difficult. I want to find someone that would travel somewhere for a couple weeks without having to check email, messages, or who the bachelor picked. I like someone that can get away. If any of this interests you or want to learn more, drop me a message.