Getting back off this ride done on the 20th so Dont let me get away! I am a fabulous person who tries to find the good things in everyday. There is always a brightside just have to look for it.. I am a brutally honest person. I am probably the most honest person you will ever meet. I dont lie and I dont like people who do. I also dont look (got carded twice this year) or act my age. Im not barbie but, im glad im not I have a brain! I know these are not the greatest pics I look way better! Lol. I grew up showing and training horses. Now I train and show dogs, sometimes show my mothers horses. One of my dogs was #2 in the country for his breed in obedience in 2010 in addition to being in 2 more top tens. He now has 21 titles at 4 yrs of age and he had last year off. Im an over achiever and quite happy being that way. If you tell me I cant do it, ill do it better than anyone has. I enjoy movies and I love Eddie Vedder and Pearl Jam and go to his or their concerts as much as I can. I also like to go out to dinner or I can just as easily cook at home and hang out on the couch. I love riding horses and hiking with my dogs. I have a sarcastic wit as it seems most people from Chicago do! I am not looking to go out just to go out. Im looking for someone who has similar interests to mine and wants to perhaps build a relationship by starting with a friendship. Though Im also open to try new things. I love driving around the country and especially out west. I love it out west and think and dream of it often. The person I am looking for must love animals, have a sense of humor and be able to handle a little sarcasm without crying like a 2year old (told you brutally honest,sarcastic wit) I want to find someone who can be romantic. Romance is important. So is being able to have conversations about anything. Laughing is important too. Relationships have to be give and take. Both people need to be present and willing to work at it. The person Im looking for will Like me for who I am. That means when Im dressed up to go out on the town, or a dogshow believe it or not dogshows are dressy affairs. Or Im in Pearl Jam mode and have my utilikilt on with boots and a tank top and my tattoos are showing. They also must be faithful. Lieing and cheating are my two permanent dealbreakers. I have been through some hard things in my life, made some mistakes and believe both the hard times and mistakes have made me a stronger and better person. I am the happiest now that I have ever been in my life. Truely. Its Awesome! Id like to be able to find someone to share that with. The things I am passionate about in life I am to the core. I always strive to do and be the best I can be. Ok and 99% of the time when Im online Im on my ipad so if you try to im me I cant im back so its not me ignoring you, lol. I never thought id say this in my life, but I have come to love country music! Pj is still number one however There are alot of feel good make you happy country songs out. Fly over states is my current favorite. Good luck to all on their quest...still ever hopeful in my search of the one...Oh and though I am not yet divorced there is no worry of my ever getting back with my ex...trust me not for all the money in the world lol. Never happen he is long gone and I could not be happier. Thought id add that if anyone had reservations about my just being separated. Also if you dont have a photo Im likely not to respond. If your on here why dont you have a photo? Also if you refer to women as "females" thats a huge peeve of mine. Hey brutally honest, just sayin'