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53 year old man
Roswell, Georgia, United States

Seeking:
women 37-50
Within:
50 Miles of Roswell, Georgia, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am an honest and transparent evolved alpha male. I am successful, physically fit, happy, loving, very funny, and intelligent. I raised my son alone from the time he was 3, serve my community, and treat people with respect.

I am sensitive and loving, yet confident and in control. Peaceful but driven. Think Deepak Chopra meets Tony Soprano.

As I get older I get less judgmental, but my criteria for a woman in my life gets more specific. I would rather be alone than unhappy. I possess that dichotomy that women love - a gentle and loving man that still is strong, in charge, and capable of taking care of business.

I will be no more or less than I am on the first date. I am who I am, and have worked hard to find out who that is and grow. I am looking for the same.

I seek a funny, accountable, drama free, uninhibited, healthy (mind, body, spirit), positive, joyful, beautiful woman to share my journey. It has been over 3 years since my heart has beat wildly for a woman. I want to feel a lump in my throat. I want to kiss someone with passion. I want to go to sleep thinking about you, and waking up the same.

I wish you all the greatest success in your pursuits, and please at the very least let's all treat each other with respect in our communications.

UPDATE: First does online dating even work?

After all the incessant IM, texting, phone calls, and smoke signals do we even have a snowballs chance in hell of having chemistry? I mean part of chemistry is the mystery when you look across the room and see someone for the first time. It is hard to recreate that when you already know that her favorite color is mauve and she did not get the pony she wanted for her eigth birthday. That being said, I will be willing to exchange a couple of emails, one phone call, and if we like each other (after I slip you a note during math class) we should meet for a date. Yes dare I say it, and actual date.

Secondly, in order to find "the One" we need to first work on ourselves, we have to be the right person before we can find the right person. There is an old saying that states "If you found the perfect person, why would they want to be with you?" This is a valid question we can all ask ourselves.

Thirdly we have to get honest and take off the masks. For instance no one is "single by choice" if you were you would not be here. We are single because we have not found "the One". This is not choice, but temporarily being in the wrong place at the wrong time. We are not hopeless romantics, but hopeful ones. How can we be romantic if we are hopeless? We are hopeful romantics or again we would not be here. Finally love is not 50/50, it is 110/110 or more. To be honest it is not important as to how much the other person is willing to give, but what you are. That is all you can control. It does not always come quid pro quo. Are you strong enough to love unconditionally?

Fourthly regarding the issue of baggage, again lets get honest. There is probably not a person on this site that has not had some sort of romantic tragedy at one point or another. Something that shattered their hearts in a million pieces and dropped them to their knees. Something that might have sent them into their "dark night of the soul". The question is are we going to let it define who we are for the better or the worse? Nietzche said it best "that which does not kill us makes us stronger". I have no regrets.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Martial arts, Tennis / Racquet sports, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

My cat passed in September 2011, and my dog Gus in September of 2012. I currently do not have any pets, but would love to be with someone that does.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Leo
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Music, reading, deep conversations, comedy, learning, dancing, sports, etc.

Favorite hot spots:

Seaside Florida, Clearwater Florida, Virginia Highlands, Little Five Points, Manhattan.

Favorite things:

I have an eclectic taste in music. If you saw my IPOD play list or CD collection, and did not know me you would not know what age, race, or gender I was.

Last read:

The Power of the Sub-conscious Mind by Joseph Murphy and Doc by Maria Doria Russell.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green
Hair:
Salt and pepper
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I am an entrepreneur having owned 3 businesses. This does not mean I am wealthy (2008 had something to say about that), it just means that I enact a higher percentage of influence pertaining to my income and outcome.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
No
No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian

I grew up in NYC which influenced me to be moderate in my thinking and lifestyle. It also influenced me to challenge my perceptions and opinions regarding that which is important.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Interfaith. Study - Metaphysics, Tao, Kabbalah, 1st Century Christianity, Positive Psychology, NLP, etc. Practice - Loving Kindness, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Prayer, Meditation, Extending Grace, Conscious Creation, Non-Judgement, etc.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

I attended the University of Sedona (online learning) to obtain my Masters, MsC in Metaphysical Philosophy.

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