Some of these may resonate, but either way they either define my character, my areas of interest or attract my attention, in no particular order...
Great design, form, color, beauty, depth, old houses, old cars, passion, honesty, great communication, sexuality, brains, confidence, non verbal skills, patience, trust, integrity, hi heels, emotional maturity, transparency, patriotism, morning kisses, the smell of rain in the desert, PDA, the top down on a summer night, chemistry, texts in the middle of the day that say "I dig you", An ice cold beer with a close friend, how good it feels to give someone a compliment.
What am I looking for, well in broad strokes, low drama, someone who is really happy in their own skin, takes care of themselves and is attractive, passionate and emotionally available. I don’t have a preconceived idea of what this looks like, but to me it has a lot to do with the chemistry not the recipe. Absolutely a sense of humor, how easy going someone is, or the physical attraction all play into it, but I don’t have a gauge on how to measure these without just chatting.