I am kind and romantic and tend to be very silly. I am very adventurous and creative, but I am not the "life of the party." I may be somewhat shy at first, especially over the phone, but once I open up to someone, I'm very open and playful. I tend to keep my circle of friends small and value quality over quantity when it comes to spending time with people. My friends have described me as bubbly, trustworthy, and compassionate. I have a little boy and a little girl who are the light of my life. I love animals and have a cat, but am also a dog lover. What am I looking for in a man? I am not very particular about looks. I find many types of men attractive. I'm looking for someone who becomes more attractive after I get to know their heart and mind. I am looking for someone who wants true intimacy and not just fun dates with as many women as he can get on match. ;-) I prefer someone who has a liberal slant to their political beliefs. Hardcore republicans need not apply. If you are the type of guy who is romantic with his lady even after the initial "getting-to-know-you" phase, you get bonus points. I could care less about expensive gifts or fancy dinners. You will win my heart with kind words and actions that match.