I am sure everone that is on here has a story about dating, I think we are all looking for the one special person we can fully connect with and share our time with. I like being with the person I am dating, I like men to be gentlemen, I like doors held open for me, I to be asked out on a second date before the first date is completely over, I like for a man to have a backbone and state how he feels. I also want to do nice things for a man as well and go out of my way to make him feel special and adored.
For me the ultimate guy would have a college degree, value education, have a great career already established, have financial goals yet want to have some fun spending at times. I don't want someone living in a financial lie, I think California breeds that, so please stay away if you can't pay bills.
I want a man who wants to be in a relationship. I don't want to go on dates with someone looking for a "friend" or looking for something casual, I am here to meet the man of my dreams.
I would like to find someone that takes care of themself, I like to take care of myself, I workout 3 to 4 times a week, get my nails done...etc...I have done P90X2 but I am not a gym rat either. I am far from perfect and far from a super model and gain 5 pounds over holidays but I also don't need to loose 40 pounds either to be at my ideal body weight.
I would like to find someone that values faith, that feels that going to Church is important but what's more important is that he have a relationship with the Lord. I don't want a "bible beater" or a missionary on a quest to convert everyone, just someone that prays and has faith.
I love to travel, so that is also a must, I love to eat out and enjoy great wine, food and company. I would love to do certain things in my life but I am also flexible to learn and try new things, I want a guy that is willing to explore the world and be open to adventure.