An optimist who is looking for the same. Look, I know life can be brutal and I'm fully tempered by reality; but I don't want stress outside of work... I believe personality is created in that skittishness before an tough decision. I live for a challenge but try not to take unnecessary risks though I do enjoy competition. Sometimes people think I'm intense or aloof, but really I try not to take myself too seriously and often I just don't respond as others would like.
Im looking for someone who sees the glass as half full and realizes that life is ever changing. She will enjoy travelling, trying out new experiences, and sometimes just relaxing. She will have her own interests that drive her and will be happy to share those. She will have helped others; somewhere, sometime or even volunteer with a philanthropy.
If you like (or have at least tried) speaking another language, traveling somewhere off the beaten path (ive worked/lived in Asia, the Congo, Zimbabwe, Ghana, Kazakhstan etc) we will prob get along.. If you have ever tried snowboarding, boxing, hiking, wakeboarding, sailing, football, windsurfing, baseball, or even just some basic working out...then we can get out the coffee shop/restaurant and do something fun.