I am a 46 year old Normal Girl - (at least I think so). I say normal - because i've seen some crazy things out there! I truly enjoy spending time with my daughter, when she's home - or hanging with my friends at their local hot spots (I really don't have any of my own) I'm not a big barfly, I like following bands rather than hang out at a pick-up joint.
I enjoy trying new things... I am somewhat of a thrill seeker - I would love to skydive, zipline, rock climb, dive....I don't know if I would love it..but I would certainly love to try! I also enjoy some wine, quiet music, the theatre (I'm vounteering at the Schuster this year - cool experience!), pretty much anything that doesn't involve killing things, or stuffing them, etc.
I enjoy cooking...I don't have a tester around here - my daughter eats on campus, so... I will say I'm a good cook , I dont know for sure But...I have been told that once or twice. :)
I'm looking for the real deal...no hook-ups..no serial MATCH dating, just an honest person to share memories with. I've dated for quite a while - and probably a few of you throughout the years :) I try to remember that each person brings something to your life experience. So take the good and the bad, and figure out what you were supposed to learn from it.
I have also learned in the last year to not worry so much about what will happen, or what has happened, but to realize that you never know what will happen in the next 3 seconds. So, I enjoy my time with the ones I care about without the distractions of worrying what does it mean? or what comes next? This doesn't mean I'm perfect at this...afterall, learning is a never ending blessing. I'm looking for someone to make great memories experiencing the new things in life and sharing the exciting and mundane moments with. Live in the moment!!!
So If you are interested in becoming friends first, living in the moment for what it will bring and seeing if we develop something along the way or simply learn what we were supposed to learn, then by all means, let me know. I say with the kindest heart, if your divorce isn't final, or you haven't been divorced at least a year (and that's minimum), I probably am not the girl for you. Not that you aren't ready to get out there and be with other people, certainly, you are...but I am not ready to be a rebound girl again. I hope you will try to understand.
P.S. All the pics are from the last year or so. My profile pic is from December.
I wish everyone good luck.