If you don't have a picture then please, please don't waste your time in contacting me. I won't respond. If we do exchange numbers don't just text me non stop. I will get bored of that. I do like to talk on the phone more than sending text messages non stop. I will more than likely stop responding... so hint hint..!! Oh.. and I have cancelled this so effective 3/14/2013.. Bye bye Match..!!
If you feel the need to be traveling all the time or be non stop every weekend then I am probably not the girl for you. I have 2 young kids at home and believe it or not I love being their mommy. Don't get me wrong I like doing fun and exciting things but I also like my weekends to be mellow. I am a full time student and need quiet time for homework.
I grew up in Long Beach and my family still lives there. We are a small family but very close.
I am looking for a man 6" or taller of Hispanic or Caucasian decent preferably. In their mid 30's to 40's. College education is preferred. A well established job and their own place.
I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship (not necessarily in that order). I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful love messages for each other just because. (You know those little butterflies) If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you've got blue eyes, are a Rams (Surprise, Surprise we are doing alright this year) or a Dodger fan , I'm already melting.
My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I do my homework and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.
What I've Learned from Past Relationships:
Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards. It's better to understand than to be understood. Laughter can save a relationship; lack of laughter can kill it. Having kids makes you a better person, but it will also complicate your relationship in ways impossible to understand from the outside. I speak from experience.
I have 2 beautiful kids that I live and breath for but it is now time for me to get back out there and date..!! I promise they are good kids. My daughter will melt your heart with how sweet she is. It is very rare that to see her get upset. My son is shy at first but comes out of his shell once he gets to know you. We are a group package and they will always be first in my life when it comes to raising them. I have fought hard to keep my family together and am looking forward to adding that special man into our lives. (They don't need a daddy) We have a lot of love to give. Key word.. "We."
