For the record, I must say that I do not date married men, men in the process of separation, men with girlfriends etc. There have been men in all three of these categories that have contacted me, and I'm not comfortable with getting to know someone that is not fully open and/or emotionally available to potentially move forward. Also, If you have your age range listed as young as 18....Please do not contact me.....I have a 20 year old daugher!!
I am an extremely open and honest person. I may not at all times know what I want, but I completely know what I do not want in my life. My life is very complete...emotionally, financially, spritually etc., and I am finally at a point, that I know exactly who I am, the direction I am going, and the type of person I would like to share all of that with.
My relationships with my parents, children (ages 20 and 18), are all extremely loving and secure. We are very close and supportive of one anothers dreams and personal goals. This relationship that I share with my family (especially my parents), has made me completely aware of what is important in my life, and completely aware of who I want to share those things with. Since I share those relationships within my family, I certainly would not expect anything less from the man I am with. :-) My parents are loving, compassionate, giving and all around amazing people that I genuinely admire and respect....the same qualities that I am looking for in a man, and qualities that I hope I can provide for him as well! :-)
With all of that said, my standards of the type of man that I want to share my time with is extremely high. I don't feel as if I "need" a man in my life, but I certainly looking forward to having one. Please understand, I WOULD NEVER ASK MORE FROM SOMEONE, THAT I AM NOT CAPABLE AND WILLING TO PROVIDE IN RETURN! :-)Men who know who they are, what they are doing, and what they are doing with their life is a very attractive quality. If you can't figure this out about yourself, how will you ever be able to figure us out? While being spontaneous is fun while dating, a Plan A and Plan B is also a thoughtful gesture.
OK with all that was previously mentioned, my first priority for my ideal match would have to be someone that is intellectually strong and competitively humorus. :-). Conversation would be a bit boring when two people are on opposite mental levels. This man would have to have a bit "old fashioned" morals and values, graced with southern charm. Although I believe in my independence, I also love being a submissive dependent woman with a mentally strong committed man! :-)