How would I describe myself; first and foremost I am a devoted mother who will fight for her kids like a wild animal. I am in constant search of new knowledge and challenges to my ideas. I come from a very large, loud and diverse family. I value honesty above integrity and have no patience for ignorance. I love to laugh and believe that it is the best medicine. I also am a big proponent of being proactive not reactive while still embracing sponteanaety. I do not do the bar scene, unless it is for a special occasion but I love hanging out with friends for a cookout etc. My greatest accomplishments are my children. What I am looking for in a relationship is fun, honesty, and adult responsibility. I don't want someone who goes out everyday, but rather someone who doesn't mind a quiet night home now and then. I need someone who is financially responsible. I am not looking for a future husband. I don't want to plan that far ahead. I am easy going and enjoy the craziness of life. I am new to this online thing and I do so much better in person. So if you want to know more then the next step is yours.
Update: I have been on this site for awhile and have learned several things, meet some new & interesting ppl, as well as some I would like to forget. What I have learned the most is that honesty should be more than an ideal.It should be a way if life. And that life is too short to dwell on what could have been. I think I have also changed what I was looking for in a match. And I say match because until you actually met someone and talk to them, you will never know what the potential could be, so I would prefer to get the meeting over sooner than later, so I come from a tall family, I am the shortest at 5 ft 10.. So I really would like to met someone taller than I so, so I can wear heels :) I have a natural attraction to bald heads and tattoos, as I have a few myself (tattoos not bald head..hehe). MUST HAVE a sense of humor. MUST also be intelligent. I am a great listener and can usually do it for hours, but only if it is intellectually stimulating. And I can't stand ignorance or disrespect. I am not superficial or materialistic, but I do know what I don't like and have no problem speaking my mind when I need to. Would appreciate the same from others.
I'm sure I will update my profile more as time goes on, unless, I find the one who will cause me to no longer need this site.
FYI.. If you wink or e-mail, I will respond (personally) from now on. I think that is only the right thing to do.
Thanx for taking the time to read my profile... I wish you luck on your search.. :-)
