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39 year old man
Clementon, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 30-41
Within:
130 Miles of Clementon, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

HELP WANTED: Highly qualified should apply. I'm somewhat picky, but far from a perfectionist.
(I know this is a bit long--I'm a lawyer/artist--what--but I included some great nuggets and promise to make it worth your while and then some--even if we don't match!)


Benefits: I'll give all I ask from my partner below and more.


2 Qualifications:

1.) Versatile mind and 2.) open heart = must haves. A few studies with wow-factor to illustrate: Both having a pet and discussing realistic romantic comedies after watching them together helped couples communicate better--often even more than couples' counseling (action flicks can't do that); and raw onions, garlic and mushrooms have amazing properties that help ward off cancer! I enjoy reading health and relationship studies like these and trying to incorporate the most powerful ones in my life. Yes, I'm a practical intellect--one who writes for publication and then fixes most broken stuff in my houses...and also a spiritual, open-minded church goer and romantic musician/writer--one who is building a poetry garden and sound stage in my yard. I ADORE VERSATILITY.

A socially conscious, independent and OPEN HEART is a must as well. The easiest way to explain my meaning on this one is by showing what I don't need: 1.) a woman of any color who hides from or fears the Native, African or otherwise indigenous part of her background. (Newsflash: culture is real; but race is political fiction created to serve segregation and colonialism. All come from Africa to start and most mixed lots more after. Even 20% of "White" folks are mixed U.S. "Black" per the human genome.) Not just a lawyer, landlord and artist, I often teach collegiate Black history and English--so no patience for weak girls who dance to daddy's 1955 insecurities and ignorance. 2.) xenophobes--I'm a U.S.-born child of immigrants and have lived abroad. 3.) those who get more excited about a new handbag than a child educated out of poverty. I've dedicated much of my skills, energy and education (5 law licenses, 3 higher degrees) to public service and desire a partner with a big heart.


3 Match Points:

A practical activity and vision partner who will delight in my goals and gifts with me, allow me to support and celebrate hers and, most of all, relish working together as 50/50 co-captains in crafting and doing shared goals small and big in the day-to-day of this amazing life journey.

A spiritual and thought partner who can fully embrace both the intellectual/ creative and the spiritual together. One flexible enough to talk about ideas big and silly alike, yet humble enough to realize that some things are beyond our immediate reach and require meditative prayer, lots of faith and serious teamwork--and who's gritty enough to do all that with me.

A passion partner. Someone who understands the power of amazing music. Who embraces my many passions--healthy lifestyle, progressive politics, youth and community mentoring, legal justice, real estate development, creating great art, spiritual Christianity, great kissing and intellectual writing/thinking/teaching--and wants to be my partner or supporter in each. She can hang with regular weekend adventures and nightly simple fun at home. Someone who inspires me to make serious love to her merely by the forever in her eyes, the genuine crest of her smile, the devotion in her voice, the steadfastness of her gait towards me, and that let's-make-these-beautiful-babies intent in her kiss. I'm looking long, long, sweet, long term.

OK, let me stop there before this reads like some wedding vows...smile. F.Y.I. I'm told I'm much cuter than the pics, much more accomplished than I advertise, younger than my 39 , and packing quite a lot more wit and humor than my average lawyer and academic peers. I like a strong, feminine partner. So, if you take too long to contact me, I will read vacillation and move on. Bonne chance, Cherie!

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I have a few turtles, frogs and ducks in a pond in my yard.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, PA
For fun:

Home improvement; mentoring youth; spontaneous road trips; cooking and hosting; working out, hatha yoga, acoustic guitar, poetry, Latin and Caribbean dancing, indie films, theatre, cultural festivals and concerts. All things Haitian and fusion.

Favorite hot spots:

Barcelona, Negril, Cozumel, Paris, Old San Juan, Grande Riviere, San Francisco, Chicago, New York, Memphis and New Orleans. Next to visit: Rio, Mumbai, Venice, Accra.

Favorite things:

Q-Tip, Stevie Nicks, Eric Clapton, Coltrane, Miles D., Ravi Shankar, Norah Jones, Rihanna, Jay-Z, Black Eyed Peas, Emeline Michel, Eric Roberson, Stevie Wonder, Celia Cruz, Bob Marley, Beyonce, Kindred, Leela James, Doug E. Fresh, ..

Last read:

Michelle Alexander, Malcolm Gladwell, Isabel Allende, Rumi, Langston Hughes, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Alice Walker, Edwidge Danticat, etc. -- "Never stop smiling not even when you're sad, someone might fall in love with your smile." GGM (I'm not 39)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Moderately
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Legal
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design

Lawyer, business owner, p-t professor, artist. I believe in multiple streams income, assets and impact--while maintaining only the debt on my houses. So, free to take business risks, travel, work for me and live with passion and purpose for others.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Caribbean/ Haitian - American

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, French, Spanish, Other
English, French, Spanish
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

UPenn, Rutgers, Columbia, School of Hard Knocks...very edumacated...

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