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39 year old man
Clementon, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 30-41
Within:
130 Miles of Clementon, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Me:

Tall, dark, handsome, athletic, financially independent, with multiple degrees, law licenses, properties and a few fortunate published legal cases...

Can sing my own poetry over guitar chords in four languages; write fiction and non-, dance a nice kompa, bhangra, hip-hop or salsa on one; fix most items in my house; and cook some mean homemade fireplace pizza, tostones, dosa, pad thai, catfish and chocolate cheesecake...

I'm not a serial dater. I'm 100% single, and for the first time in a while--but not looking to stay that way.

What I seek:

I actually mean it when I say that I don't have one ethnic physical "type" or limit in my cultural competency. Merely looking like Olivia Pope, Katie Perry, Mary Jane, Lucy Liu or Priyanka Chopra will not suffice to catch this deep fish--really. My female friends and past relationships span the gamut in skin, hair, features and ethnicity--as do those I have not been attracted to or chosen (said frankly, without arrogance). I know you're beautiful to me by the totality of your presence. Your personality (open); the sound and substance of your voice (sweetly grounded alto); your cultural range (broad); intelligence (multiple); style and gait (balanced pace of walk and talk to meet mine); the optimistic sparkle in your eyes; the nurturing way you hold a child, care for a pet or volunteer; sexy way you smile; etc.--are all a big part of what makes you beautiful to a multi-sensory, cerebral and creatively passionate man like me. So, I need to meet or at least talk to confirm attraction and chemistry. Rather than any physical type, I just seek a really cool, versatile and open-minded woman to partner with me for about seven (7) compatible everyday life activities ...

-1. weekend trips to see your and my favorite artists in concert and summer street and beach festivals from Boston to Miami...

-2. morning yoga classes for two along the lakes in Fairmount and Central Park as we take turns leading each other in our favorite asanas...

-3. daytrips to museums, downtown shopping, sporty lunches and outdoor arts in NYC, Philly, Baltimore, DC, Wilmington, New Brunswick, Hartford, and countless small towns in between...

-4. nighttime fun at my many membership venues for indie movies, restaurants and dancing...

-5. outdoor adventures kayaking, cycling, playing basketball, pinicking, camping, swimming and playing board games in the park...

-6. social partner time with me in hosting members of my huge extended family or our closest friends for amazing home BBQs, fireplace movie nights, pool parties and fire pit concerts at my house....

-7. and just about anything that's important to you or me can be shared...alternating cafe bookstore poetry readings over hot sips and lunch; arts or exercise classes via Living Social; college gospel, international, pop, hip-hip, R&B, acoustic rock and jazz concerts; my academic conference panel presentations; Sunday church services; and special fundraisers for the urban youth afterschool programs I volunteer in--and that's just my half....

I'm not here to date, just to live how we live, and share our active lives and thoughts as amazing friends who allow our sharing to grow naturally into a fuller and fuller partnership. Ultimately, marriage and family. My body's much younger than 39, my mind is much older and my chronological age is slightly older. Deeply romantic and creatively affectionate, but I also respect boundaries and have self-control. If you share my vision, come share my time.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I have a few turtles, frogs and ducks in a pond in my yard.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, PA
For fun:

Home improvement; mentoring youth; spontaneous road trips; cooking and hosting; working out, hatha yoga, acoustic guitar, poetry, Latin and Caribbean dancing, indie films, theatre, cultural festivals and concerts. All things Haitian.

Favorite hot spots:

Barcelona, Negril, Cozumel, Paris, Old San Juan, Grande Riviere, San Francisco, Chicago, New York, Memphis and New Orleans. Next to visit: Rio, Mumbai, Capetown, Accra.

Favorite things:

Q-Tip, Stevie Nicks, Eric Clapton, Coltrane, Miles D., Ravi Shankar, Norah Jones, Rihanna, Jay-Z, Black Eyed Peas, Emeline Michel, Eric Roberson, Stevie Wonder, Celia Cruz, Bob Marley, Beyonce, Kindred, Leela James, Doug E. Fresh, ..

Last read:

Michelle Alexander. I also enjoy Malcolm Gladwell, Isabel Allende, Rumi, Langston Hughes, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Alice Walker, Edwidge Danticat, etc. -- "Never stop smiling not even when you're sad, someone might fall in love with your smile." GGM

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Moderately
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Legal
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design

Thinker, lawyer, investor, p-t professor ... As for income below, I believe in multiple streams and reserving maximum time for loved ones. The more 'material' question for long-term serious folks is one of assets. l own multiple properties.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Caribbean/ Haitian - American

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, French, Spanish, Other
English, French, Spanish
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

UPenn, Rutgers, Columbia, School of Hard Knocks...very edumacated...

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