Hi I'm James and what best describes me, I would have to say that I'm a humble, genuine type of man. I'm laid back,calm, I have the up most patience; which is my strongest trait...Family oriented roots. I've learned alot from watching how my grandfathers were with my grandmothers and I could only say that I wish that someday I could be only a portion of the men they were. I've been back in Miami for quite some time and alot have change over 6 years, I've decided to give this site a try. I work at night and I play Semi-pro football so pretty much if I'm not at work I'm practicing. I really haven't been dating much because of the fact that I had to figure out somethings about myself and continue to grow as a man. Which I have no problem saying. We all need to continue to grow in some aspect in life to reach the goal of how your parents and grandparents have also grown. Somethings aren't always perfect but we have to make best of the life we have in front of us. Like the old saying goes "LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT".. I'm looking for a woman who I can just be myself, laugh.. Eventually LOVE.... I just want someone that knows wat she wants out of life and be herself. I'm a positive person and only surround myself with positive people who look at life in a positive light, with that said please don't be the opposite. If anything else I'm always here to answer any ? you may have...