I enjoyed the party scene long ago and found I need to have some balance of excitment and relaxation to be healthy and productive. I enjoy the time spent with friends and it usually does not matter what we do as long as we are together doing it.
I'm a hard working, but have learned moderation is the key to getting things done, making money,enjoying my work, having time to myself to avoid burnout. I ve learned that you can't take yourself too seriously because you really are not as impressive as you may think!
Relationships should be easy. You and I have our friends and time with each other, plus the added impromtu outting. Laughter is the drug of the soul and opens up all parts of life, Laugh, Live, Love.
My match need be comfortable in her own skin, have her own goals and dreams. She has to be able to communicate openly no matter what the situation and not hide behind her fears or short comings.
Leave your childish games behind please because life is too short to fiddle around with High School shenanigans. Age is within the mind and spirirt so please dont be hung up on " you're too young/old for me". A sense of humor ways heavy with me as I love a good joke and sometimes tell some hardcore ones. Upbeat, strong personality is key, be your own woman. Hope you like to eat because I like to cook ( was a line Chef years ago when there was no money of TV shows for Chefs). I also like to spur of the moment hop in the car and go somewhere to dine. Drug free is a must other than alcohol, that I can handle. Grab your dock shoes in the summer as we board the boat often.
Take a chance and send me a message, this should not be so difficult and fair is fair so even a " No Thanks" is appreciated. Just ignoring people is rude and we are all here to meet and enjoy people, so why pretend they didn't send you a wink or email.
Get out there and be yourself and your dreams may come true.
I see that many of you lovely ladies desire honesty, well we all like walks on the beach, dinner and dancing, so maybe you should not use the template profile helper and just write whats in your heart and mind.
Economic times are tough and I love a sandy island, but lets be realistic; If we make a connection maybe we should spend the time investing in the relationship and not cloud it with whisps of fantasy vacations. A " lifetime" is a long time and I would rather know Im with the right girl for the long haul than the cool /vacation/club/beach bunny that is never really herself or happy. Vacations on Cape Cod are a frequent thing to see the family!
Ladies, I like kids too , but please no dicussion of when and how many on the first date!
Well thats all for my honest chapter, hope you werent offended and if you were....oh well keep looking!