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It is proving VERY difficult to find "that" woman. I'm looking for "normal" drama free fun as we learn one another. I know you're out there!

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47 year old man
Oxnard, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-45
Within:
20 Miles of Oxnard, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

ATTN: Please read my entire profile. Yes, it is long; however, it's designed to weed-out the "incompatibles," and PLEASE be within my age preferences

I am a well established professional working toward my second career, and possess the following characteristics:
• goal oriented;
• internally motivated;
• effective communicator;
• intuitive;
• perceptive;
• organized;
• economically stable;
• passionate/sensual;
• caring;
• devoted;
• loyal;
• sincere;
• honest;
• "experienced;"
• outgoing; and,
• altruistic.
I am confident (not cocky/arrogant), possess sound moral values, am very reliable, and fiercely defend those who are close to me.
I am both a country and a city boy meaning I like to get dirty, and am more than capable of being a truly well dressed professional (yes, you can take me home to meet the fam). I am in no way narrow-minded and can be very romantic. I rely a lot on my instincts (gut feeling), and have a knack for knowing when things are right. At this stage of life I know after a first date if there's any possibility of a meaningful relationship: I know what I want.
I enjoy all all sorts of activities, and am not afraid to try anything. I am not a SOCAL native, and want a partner to do all the cool/fun stuff around here, so let's go do it!
Would like to meet an active woman. This doesn't mean that we must share the exact same athletic activities, but it would be nice to sometimes do things together.
I run, cycle, and swim. Don't worry because it doesn't own my life, but I do have a few goals to accomplish. Although I very much like an active woman, this does not mean I seek the very "high strung" types.
Call me "old school," but I'm that guy who will open any door for you, pull out your chair (if there is one), and I'll walk you to your car or front door just to ensure you are safe. I am fearless and am trained to seriously harm an adversary if required, but on the inside I'm a twinkie, or perhaps a cupcake? Haha.
I can be a "direct" type of guy who does not condone, nor initiate drama of any sort. I also have a low tolerance for potential drama coming from you, and this includes coming from your family/friends. I despise sarcasm (the bad kind: you know who you are), and if this characteristic fits we will not get along.
I seek an honest, sensual, caring, good girl with a "bad" side. One who is non-obnoxious and will fall for me for who I am, and not for any tangible assets. I prefer confident women with substance who can keep it real, and move me emotionally.
Cooking is something I enjoy, and I am a very clean/organized person. I am in-tune with my feminine side per se despite my "rough" exterior persona, and my friends sometimes get on me about it, but I just think that they're jealous!
I do not like, nor play "head games," and am very straightforward. I understand that people overcome challenges/obstacles in their lives/relationships; however, I do know what I want, and if we don't "click" straight away I will not lead you on. Neither of us have time to do otherwise, and we both are mature enough to understand this aspect of the dating scene.
I do not care for people who do not care for others, and I try to volunteer or help those in need as much as possible. I am a deep thinker, and very sensual/committed with the right woman. Post Script:
I have a difficult time with insecure women; super quiet girls; PICKY EATERS; lots of cosmetic surgery; and the type that cannot carry a convo. I am very interested in what's between your ears although a physical attraction is an absolute. Oh, and this is very important; I cannot give you a child, but I can surely support those you may already have.
I look forward to meeting you!!! Ciao....

Interests:
Alumni connections, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Cycling, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I am an animal lover of nearly any species, and I adore my GSD!

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
California Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, CA
For fun:

Surfing; running; cycling; kayaking; track racing cars; cooking; exploring new ventures; I would like to learn to Salsa dance. Not a sports freak, but enjoy the NHL; NFL, MLB (World Series), and NBA (finals only). An occasional authentic Cuban cigar.

Favorite hot spots:

Let's create some!

Favorite things:

My sweet mother; animals; SF 49ers; wood burning fireplaces; the smell of rain; candles; BBQing; BMW; The Walking Dead; True Blood; Game Of Thrones; Breaking Bad, SoA; House of Cards; Trek Madone; a fabulous smelling woman, and cuddling!

Last read:

The Fifth Discipline; The Social Animal; Leading Change; Leadership on the Line; blink: Outliers; Was America Founded as a Christian Nation?; Marathon Training for Dummies.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
No Way, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference
Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

If you attend church on a weekly basis and would expect me to accompany you, I am not your man.

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

B.S. Organizational Leadership. I am an actual "learner," not just someone who "checks the box." I am proud to have been the 2012 graduating class Commencement ceremony speaker. Beginning my Masters this September. Ugh, here we go again!

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