Realizing at some point in my 20's that the only person I'm stuck with for the rest of my life is me, I took time to work on becoming someone I truly enjoy being with 24-7. I've learned from people I've met and places I've been, and hopefully you have, too. I try to get out of the country at least a couple of times a year, read all sorts of interesting things, including trashy novels, and trade stocks every day. I'm quite comfortable with where I am in my career, and my friends and family are just about as neurotic as everyone else's seem to be. I have nothing against settling down, even if the expression contains the word "settle." I am perfectly healthy physically, and reasonably stable emotionally. My job requires me to use the left side of my brain all day, and at the end of the day, I would just like a good guy who makes me feel like a girl.
Please be honest, loyal and loving. There is nothing sexier than a man who is compassionate, attentive and gentle. It's alright to be a little dorky. I am, too. It would help if you don't make me vomit. Oh, a proclivity for giving your girl a backrub wouldn't hurt.
By the way, gentlemen, if you find a woman worth contacting, you might as well take a couple of minutes of your time to jot down a sentence or two in an e-mail. I never know how to respond to a "wink."