OK - the fact is, that I want to meet someone that is my "partner" - simple!! I don't want to serial date, I don't want to hit and miss..... but I guess we are all in the same predicament?.... Soooo, lets be direct- if the looks are there (physical attraction - is NOT the most important feature- but it does have an impact) and general likes / dislikes are there- then lets be aggressive - and meet face to face. And we either get excited because you/me may be the one -or- we find out quickly that "nahhh" and we move on..... Geez - I think I just went on a rant there..... Here is a less dramatic description of me....
I get goose bumps when I hear a good song (love music- U2, Journey, Kings Of Leon, Dave Matthews, Talking Heads, The Beatles, etc..) (recorded or live). Love 70s Disco and old school stuff- Frank Sinatra, etc.. Can get into Hip Hop a bit- Jay Z- you know just to keep up with the youth (I am a Dad - and want to be a "cool" Dad- ha ha ha ) I play the drums (or I should say I have played the drums) , not as often as I would like- not great- but can get good with practice. This is probably why I appreciate music so much!! I JUST LOVE MUSIC (obviously). I know this may blow off some great people, but really, would need this person to like some sort of rock and roll...... I am not some freak or weirdo about music, really not, but do enjoy it a bunch, and why settle at this stage of the game. I want my future love to enjoy that part of my life with me... Another passion is movies - love watching a good flick. Listen I don't have this exciting profile - with real cool hobbies or exciting adventure type experiences,etc... But in this new chapter of my life I am looking forward to changing that- I am very gung ho about doing new things - and I promise I am game for just about anything- fear is rarely in my thoughts- no shame in my game. I am confident - but do temper it by being modest when appropriate.
I LOVE laughing at life and not taking things so seriously!!! I mean really, is there any other feeling better than a good laugh (OK- fine, maybe some things could give it competition..... hee hee).... ...I don't get that every day ( I mean the laugh), but would love too....
I typically roll with the punches, etc.. I am eternally optimistic and positive. I choose to not be around negativity or drama. Not religious, but can appreciate spirituality and someone's strong beliefs and conviction in them. I would like someone that doesn't hold grudges, and when appropriate is willing to compromise, and is able to accept all types of people and accept the way they are. Life is all about choices- you deal with the situations that come up or you choose not to. Life is not fair sometimes- but I promise it can be worse.... I try not to be judgmental and to be open minded about most things. I am adaptable and would like someone who is similar.
I have 2 kids that live with their Mom- but they are the 2 most important people in my life and I will always have unconditional love for them, being away from them is tough, but I guess life is what it is sometimes... I am in their lives and will always be.
Love hanging out and having a few drinks with friends and family and sometimes doing same with my partner. I am affectionate (not at a weird level) but do not mind affection in public- and definitely love an adventure..... once , if in fact we should achieve a certain level of intimacy- I do enjoy that part of a relationship and am pretty uninhibited.
Oh and PLEASE tell me you won't pass final judgment based on a few written statements on some dating site....people are deeper and more complex/layered, and maybe they are not very good at expressing themselves in writing.....So- what do you have to lose?? Nothing!
Lets meet each other- chat a bit, pick up a phone, and go from there......I assume we are all on this site for the same or similar reasons.....To meet someone and have companionship and then go from there.....
