I'm a funloving, genuine, outgoing, mature but youthful, and very much in shape, single woman who is looking for the same qualities in a match. I'm the loyal, reliable type who makes a good friend and companion--someone you can count on.
It would be great to find a match who shares my interest in working out or some type of fitness and has similar interests and values. An accomplished powerlifter, I have been weight training for 32 years and competed in the bench press both locally and nationally with USA Powerlifting throughout the '90s. Music is also a passion of mine. Seems like Mom was always taking me to piano, guitar, voice lessons...you name it, growing up. I love all types of music with 70's and 80's rock being my favorite. Concerts and theater probably top my list of favorite things to do. Van Halen, Lady Antebellum, and Journey, and also the Broadway productions Wicked and Mama Mia, are just some of the shows I've been to in recent months.
I am just months away now from having my youngest off to college, and I find myself having more freedom than in the past. I am independent, level-headed, grounded (but definitely not boring), realistic and financially stable and don't need a man to take care of me. I find myself preferring to spend my time with good friends or family rather than waste it on an endless string of men who just aren't quite right for me. I, myself, am far from perfect and am not seeking perfection, just someone who's perfect for me. :) If you're more than a few years older than me, or young enough that you have more in common with my boys than me, you are wasting your time contacting me. I know I'm not as young as I used to be, but I like to think I'm still in that awkward stage somewhere between jail bait and cougar. :)
I'd like to meet men who don't play games and are interested in a possible relationship, not just scoring and moving on to the next woman. If you're not willing to eventually put both feet into my world and allow me into yours, or you're just looking for a "friend with benefits," don't contact me. I'm looking for something real, not someone who only wants to stay on the perimeter of my life and keep me on the perimeter of his indefinitely. Also, not interested in men who like drama or are surrounded by it. Men who are outgoing, confident (not cocky), gregarious, articulate, quick-witted, athletic, passionate, attractive, and generally fun to be around seem to be what I am drawn to the most. Is all that really too much to ask for? (lol) If you know how to treat a lady right, I am someone who can appreciate that and reciprocate.
Disclaimer: If NASCAR, camping, hunting, four-wheeling, monster trucks and other such similar interests are highly important to you, please DO NOT contact me. I am very much a city girl and have absolutely no interest in those types of rural activities, unlike a number of men on this site. Oh, and....Gentlemen, one last thing...yes, I have a sarcastic sense of humor and am not a prude by any stretch, but I do like a man with some modicum of CLASS. So what I'm trying to say is that if you have a username like BigPole, MarathonMan, or SirPissAlot (yes, for real), do me a favor and please pass me by! :)