So, I have been on here for a while and have decided to change what I have written. I have always been very blunt and straight to the point and not sure why I wasn't on here.
I joined match because I am really looking to find someone to share my life with. Let's face it, the bar wasn't working, and most of my friends are now married, so there goes the referral source.
The problem with match is that everyone only looks at the pics, and really everyone here writes the same thing. So, to the ladies that read this, here is the blunt truth.
I have no drama, I own my house, I have a car, a good paying job, I love to spoil women, and I honestly believe in romance and chivalry. I think that it is funny that almost every woman's profile on here says that they are looking for a good guy that is honest and will treat them right, but go after the same kind of guy everytime....
So, I am looking for a girl who has her life together. I have worked hard for everything that I have and I want someone who has done the same. I want to meet someone who IS ready to settle down. I grew up eating dinner as a family, learning manners and morals and want the same in my partner. I understand that divorce happens, and that there really is good reasons, however, there has never been a divorce in my family and I do not intend to be the first.
I am very traditional in a lot of aspects of life. I try to keep things simple, I am very laid back and easy going. I wear my heart on my sleeve and will tell you exactly how I feel. I am too old to play games and to some I come off way to strong, but in my defense, if I really like you, I want you to know. I always hated that not knowing feeling- not just relationships, but in life in general.
I have a strong personality, I love to laugh and joke around. I work in sales, and I am not shy at all. To me, it is truely the little things that make life great- the big things are awesome, but you can never fully appreciate them untill you can appreciate the little things and not take them for granted.
So, if you are ready for a relationship, and have your life together, I would love too hear from you. If you go for guys that wear Ed Hardy, live in their parents basement, or need to be "fixed" than I am truely not the guy for you.
I am looking for the woman in which I feel lucky to have, and that she feels lucky to have me. I think that physical attraction is very important, but not the only thing that matters. I may not be the hottest guy in the world, but I am by far not the worst looking either.