I'm a strong willed and passionate ambivert dreamer who is empathic with a sensitive side, a strong morality, and perception. I'm intelligent and insightful with a knack for looking at things from all angles with a good sense of logic and foresight.
I'm fascinated by wonders of the universe, the fabric of the cosmos and beyond. I love to learn new things and expand my knowledge. I have always been driven by many child hood questions of "... but why?" that I never (ever) was given an answer to. So I grew up with a goal of finding out all those answers on my own.
I have always believed that there was a soulmate out there for me, but I have yet to find her. I'm not one to settle for someone to pass the time with while waiting to find the right person. It always seemed that being "available" when our paths do finally cross is.. um.. pretty important.
I'm a very eclectic person with a taste for the esoteric as well as the mundane. I'm silly and fun loving, but can be serious as well (if I really need to be or the situation really calls for it). I'm curious and questioning by nature, I'm talkative and animated, I'm fair, compassionate, thoughtful, romantic, courteous, cautious, and nostalgic. I can be opinionated but happily can change an opinion when mine is shown to be wrong. Being shown I am wrong just means I learned something.
I'm not overly athletic by nature, but not an out of shape complete couch potato either. So something like hiking might sound like fun, but a trip to the gym or a yoga class isn't something I do. If you're looking for a skydiving, yoga loving, marathon running, football playing, mountain climbing, parkour instructor... I don't think I'm up to that speed lol
Things I'm not into: I find strip clubs to be sad and annoying (I feel the same way about strippers). I also am not into watching sports at all, so you won't find me in front of "the big game" every weekend. I'm not GQ, but more a jeans and tshirt guy.
While I don't enjoy sports, I do enjoy games. I mostly enjoy video games and board games, but I enjoy all sorts of puzzles and games. Strategy games are something I have always excelled at. For many years I would go to board game conventions to compete in various games. At one point I had over 600 board games in my collection and 23 pinball machines. (Though today I only have one pinball machine and about 200 board games.) I love fantasy, sci-fi, and supernatural horror. I love all things medieval also.
I have never had a sip of coffee in my life (though I like the aroma), I drink more soda than I should. I don't eat as healthy as I would like, but I do like to cook. I'm not a sushi fan either.
Like to smile and laugh.
Compassionate, caring, intelligent, sympathetic, and have a sense of humor.
Witty, dorky, silly... it's all good!
A cheerful disposition is a necessity.
Someone who is not promiscuous by nature and who is loyal.
Enjoy conversation (light or deep)
Wants to mutually expose each other to new ideas and new things.
Honest, but not cruel.
Someone who has been on fewer dates is more likely to click with me than a serial dater. In any case, any exes should be completely out of the picture. Your profile should also be accurate and not vague. (If you have 30 kids, chain smoke, or are a cultist, your profile should say so right?)
I'm looking for someone I instantly click with for a serious relationship with a goal of eventual marriage (not "friends forever 1st" though at this point in my life). I'm approachable and easy to talk to. A little cynical, but someone to share my life with would really change that. I'm not going to try to impress you, I'd rather you be you, and I'll be me... and build from there.
Mean people, vampires, clueless, jet set, wiccans, aliens (and anyone who has been abducted or probed by them), hucksters, cops, and cultists need not apply.