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49 year old woman
Boardman, Ohio, United States

Seeking:
men 30-50
Within:
50 Miles of Boardman, Ohio, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Does the thought of a strong, passionate, intelligent woman grab your attention and your heart? If you answered "yes"....well, hello.

This strawberry blonde prefers gentlemen, but not wimps. Romantic candelight dinners and cozy weekend getaways make me melt. Stealing away to meet for a quick cup of coffee is sweet and thoughtful. Tossing back a couple at a neighborhood bar is great fun. Sitting at home with my hands folded in my lap is definitely not my style, but sitting at home (once in a while) holding hands with you might be.

My "soul mate" is attractive, confident, takes care of himself, and can take care of me when I need it. He loves his family--even if they are a little crazy, like mine. Differences of opinion on social and political issues can make for stimulating debate, as long as opposing views are respected.

This is what I bring to the table: Passion. Laughter. A working brain and heart. Loyalty. A youthful spirit. Sensitivity.

What's not my cup of tea? Laziness. Arrogance. Cruelty. Unwillingness to take initiative and stand up to me. Spending entire weekends watching sports on TV. Communicating via text only. The "three day rule."

Update: I just got accepted at YSU for the Spring 2011 semester. Working full time and taking classes will take up a lot of my time, but if you capture my heart, I will make time for you.

A few years back my heart was shattered. Being alone is tough, but it caused me to be much truer to myself. I would definitely rather be alone than settle for games, B.S., and "Mr. Right Now". But...I still have to believe, and want to believe, that a wonderful man is out there who makes my heart jump. I made a fresh start in a new state and believe in new beginnings, second chances, and that my best days are still ahead of me. Living with an "I can't wait to see what happens next" attitude is exhilirating. My future is not yet written. Is there a chapter in it with you?

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I've had dogs all of my life--they are the sweetest souls. I had cats before and loved them. It would be cool to have a ferret someday. Not into birds or snakes. My daughter's lizard is cool, though.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
Grossmont College, El Cajon, CA
For fun:

Going out just about anywhere to goof off with my friends and family. Cooking (No, I'm not a lardass). Shopping (Yes, I'm smart with my money). Reading (fiction, magazines). People watching at Starbucks.

Favorite hot spots:

I love the fall and winter here in northeastern Ohio. I would love to visit New Orleans and Ireland someday. Las Vegas and Atlanta are great cities I would love to visit again.

Favorite things:

Music: Classic Rock (KISS); Country (Dierks Bentley, Rascal Flatts). TV: The Mentalist; The Simpsons. Foods: I'll try just about anything once, but I typically avoid junk food and fast food (and bell peppers). My favorite color is green.

Last read:

"A Lion Among Men", by Gregory Maguire. "The Dome" by Stephen King. Whole Living Magazine. I'm studying for the Notary exam right now, so I'm reading that mind-numbing material until I take the test.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'6" (167cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I'm a legal secretary in the estate planning deparment. I really love my work and have a strong work ethic. I would like to take some classes at YSU to expand my mind and my circle of friends.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Black / African descent, Native American, White / Caucasian

Half Polish, one quarter Irish. The rest is a mix.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious

It is important to me that the special person in my life have some sort of faith base and at least be willing to give my church a try if he doesn't already attend. No atheists or men from belief systems who treat women as second class citizens.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Associates degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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