I am a self sufficient woman who is ready to share her life with a like minded man. Can't have children but want to foster/adopt. I own my own home and I take care of my 76 year old father. I can be happy staying at home or going out. I am not high maintenance but do enjoy being spoiled, I also enjoy spoiling my other half. I have been single for many years but life is short and I am ready to share mine with someone special. I'm not interested in any flings or men who are married or just separated. Please don't contact me unless you are truly free and wanting to find that someone special to share your life with. If you are kind, giving and confident we just might find that connection. I can be a bit shy at first but once I know the people I am with I can become the life of the party. I get high on life, no heavy drinkers please. I am using an iPad so instant messaging does not work on here, it is not supported. I apologize in advance as I can see people trying to message me but it doesn't tell me who or what they say. Afraid for now this has to be done the old fashioned way of an e-mail or two and then maybe texts and calls.